Leadership Development Articles - Arielle Executive https://arielle.com.au/leadership/leadership-development/ Thu, 08 Jan 2026 06:16:39 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://arielle.com.au/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/arielle-favicon-144.jpg Leadership Development Articles - Arielle Executive https://arielle.com.au/leadership/leadership-development/ 32 32 How To Improve Team Performance & Cohesion In 2026 4.8 (52) https://arielle.com.au/how-to-improve-team-performance/ https://arielle.com.au/how-to-improve-team-performance/#comments Wed, 01 Oct 2025 00:31:00 +0000 https://arielle.com.au/?p=81597 Reading Time: 11 minutesIn a perfect world, your team members would always gel perfectly and work seamlessly together to take your business to]]> Reading Time: 11 minutes

In a perfect world, your team members would always gel perfectly and work seamlessly together to take your business to new heights of innovation, profitability, and customer satisfaction.

But teams are made up of many individuals who need direction and support to feel connected to each other and your company’s mission — in order to perform at their best. 

Improving team performance requires a multi-pronged attack, which often hinges on strong and proactive leadership. But the results are worthwhile.

A high-performance team is driven, works collaboratively, quickly implements constructive feedback, and positively contributes to the whole team and the company.

(Related: Everything You Need To Know About Strategic Leadership).

1. Set Clear Expectations (And Coach People To Achieve Them).

Without properly defined expectations, no one on the team knows how to play or win the game.

Setting expectations starts with breaking down complex strategic objectives into clearly defined areas of accountability while aligning roles with your team members’ core competencies. 

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I recommend that you start with the big picture and work inwards:

  • Note the company’s strategic goals for 2026.
  • How is your team expected to contribute? Clarify expectations to members of your team.
  • Establish individual KPIs for each person, via a one-on-one meeting.
  • Encourage team members to identify barriers to success and address these individually.

Be sure to use the SMART principle to guide your team’s goal-setting:

  • Be specific: Ensure that your team’s goals are concise, with an outline of the steps involved. 
  • Make them measurable: Incorporate trackable, quantifiable benchmarks.
  • Ensure they are achievable: Ensure goals are realistic in the context of your team’s skills, available time, and performance metrics. If not, adjust. 
  • Keep them relevant: Verify that the goal is aligned with the company’s overall vision, mission, values and strategic objectives.
  • Make them time-bound: Break down your 2026 goals into quarterly and monthly checkpoints.

Don’t set and forget: maintain team performance through repetition.

Expectation-setting isn’t a one-and-done process.

Repetition is key. ALWAYS over-communicate. Be willing to state the obvious.

Reiterate goals in your everyday communications with employees, always tying strategic company mission to tactical team goals that drive day-to-day activity.

Real-World Example.

“The CEO has personally tasked us with implementing a new CRM by the end of July. Our old CRM is killing productivity. The sales team can’t be effective. The marketing team can’t be effective. Product teams can’t communicate effectively with marketing and sales. The new CRM will be the lifeline of the entire business, and by achieving this goal, we will enable everyone’s success. This is the most critical job in the business right now, and we’ve been selected to do it. All eyes are on us, team – I need you to bring your A-game.”

Team performance will improve once employees have internalised how their progress on a small task contributes to a larger mission.

Rather than leaving team members feeling like small cogs in a large machine, you must help them view themselves as indispensable to the company’s success.

Of course, your job as a leader doesn’t end with setting SMART goals and talking about them:

  • Pay attention to how people are tracking.
  • Provide recognition and feedback (more about this shortly).
  • Look for opportunities to unlock higher levels of performance through additional training and development (for example, an online course, workshop, or mentorship program).

(Related: Top 21 Ice-Breakers For Zoom Meetings).

2. Re-Clarify Responsibilities During Periods Of Rapid Growth.

Each team member needs to know their area of accountability within a team, how their success is measured and what their future prospects in the company look like.

This is easier said than done – especially in fast-growing teams.

If your technology business, for example, is growing from $30m to $100m in revenue through international expansion, you can expect a healthy degree of confusion, frustration and even resentment.

As a manager, your job is to accept that some fallout is unavoidable while doing your best to provide clarity and direction.

3 steps to give employees more clarity during periods of transformation:

  • Sit with each new team member and discuss their job title, priorities and scope so that you are both on the same page. Check in again if you sense that the employee has doubts about their priorities or your expectations around standards of work.
  • Discuss ambitions and development needs, and discuss the path to promotion, a different role, or what training or mentoring opportunities the company can provide. Make sure to tie these to the achievement of KPIs.
  • Make an action plan to document and address any internal concerns about how workloads are allocated or how responsibilities are divided. Can you build in more fairness? Remove bottlenecks? Improve lines of communication?

(Related: Raise Emotional Intelligence In Your Workplace).

3. Lead With Values (Not Rules).

When businesses have no values (or weak values), they fall back on rules. While rules are certainly important and unavoidable, they’re also inefficient.

Expert Tip.

Values are the root beliefs that your business operates from. Think of them as principles that shape your team’s behaviour.

Let’s say you run a sales team that sells B2B software by cold-calling other businesses. You probably have a 3-page SOP manual that sets out a number of rules:

  • The client must receive a follow-up email within 30 minutes of the call.
  • Every call must be logged in the CRM, with notes.
  • Calls after 5pm are not allowed.

What do you expect the salesperson to do when they encounter a situation that your rules don’t cover, or requires them to bend the rules?

For example, they discover a hot lead at 5:05pm while scrolling LinkedIn on mobile, walking to their car.

(Related: 100 Thank You Message Ideas For Colleagues).

Should they call from the car or wait until tomorrow (and potentially lose the deal)? Should they call you to ask for permission to call after hours and log the notes in the CRM tomorrow?

No.

Because you have built a winning sales culture underpinned by concrete values below, they’re equipped to make the right decision:

  • Hit your number.
  • Hard work makes luck.

Important!

Dozens of rules can be replaced with a single value. Use values to ensure compliance with 80% of your expectations. Use rules for the remaining 20%.

4. Use Feedback To Hold People Accountable.

As a manager, it is your job to let your direct reports know how they’re doing in relation to how they’re expected to be doing.

Yet, a lot of managers don’t like giving feedback. In fact, most actively avoid it because they’re uncomfortable with the idea of conflict.

They rationalise it to themselves with the following:

“Once I hire better people, I won’t need to give feedback.”

Wrong.

High-performing teams have a work culture that embraces transparent and regular feedback. 

For them, feedback is an essential mechanism of growth – rather than a source of conflict or criticism.

Regular feedback encourages trust, fosters team cohesion, and improves team performance. It’s your role as a manager to cultivate a workplace culture where team members welcome it, seek it, and (gasp) look forward to it.

(Related: Best Accounting Software In Australia).

You can deliver your feedback in a number of ways, but the essence of effective feedback is always the same:

“This is how you are doing – and this is how you’re supposed to be doing. What are we going to do about that?”

3 conditions are required for feedback to be effective:

  • Ongoing. Provide and request feedback year-round and throughout work-in-progress, not just at the end of a project or the end of the year.
  • Open. Always welcome attention being placed on problems or issues, even when it’s inconvenient — for example, when feedback might disrupt meeting a milestone on a project.
  • Reciprocal. Feedback should never be a one-way street, because the goal is to learn and improve so we can all perform better. Team managers should ask for feedback on their management style from the team and adjust to suit different personalities.

Studies confirm that people who feel heard and supported are more likely to contribute to the team. With proper feedback, you build a positive, transparent, and productive work environment.

Important!

Even if you believe the team performance and culture are outstanding, check in with employees on a one-to-one basis. People can easily suppress concerns and resentment, leading to unexpected complaints or worse – quiet quitting.

Ensure feedback is easy to receive by building a respectful culture.

Employees will find your feedback more difficult to hear if it’s delivered without regard to their knowledge, experience or feelings.

Teams with members who respect each other and interact positively outperform those with disparaging and negative members because they have a genuine desire to help each other and cover each other’s blind spots.

There is no room for disrespect in a workplace that is open to feedback in the pursuit of increasing team productivity.

OurWatch confirms that a culture of respect fosters higher standards and organisational performance.

To solidify respect, ensure the following: 

  • Foster an environment where coworkers know respect is a top priority, and there are consequences for noncompliance.
  • Hold training and regular coaching that teaches effective communication.
  • Lead by example to promote the right culture. As a team leader, show your respect for others in daily interactions. The rest of the team will follow suit.

5. Avoid Micromanaging Capable People.

You hired a person into a role because you decided that they were capable of performing the role.

If you find yourself micromanaging this person, you have one of two underlying issues:

  • You made a poor judgement call in hiring them. They’re underperforming and are not improving. Instead of accepting this truth and letting go of them, you hope to close their competency gap through micromanagement (I’ve made this mistake more than anyone).
  • You made a great hiring decision, and they’re succeeding in the job. Yet, despite this, your anxiety is high, and trust levels are low. You’re not giving them enough autonomy and

If you find yourself in the first situation, you know what you need to do.

But if you’re in the latter, you may be in a habit of putting talented people offside.

If a leader tries to manage every aspect of a project, good team members are unlikely to innovate or take responsibility.

It’s a slippery slope.

Your desire to prevent failure can, counterintuitively, lead to significantly less enthusiasm, initiative, performance or compliance.

(Related: Best HRIS Software In Australia).

Ultimately, high-performing employees under the scrutiny of a micromanaging boss feel less capable and can slide right into feeling resentful and disloyal. As a manager, remember: 

  • Team effectiveness and team efficiency rely on your trust in them.
  • When you cross into micromanagement, the team is less likely to respect you.

How can you feel more assured people are working on the right things?

Stay focused on setting expectations at the macro level. That is, clarifying goals and values.

Let your team decide how they achieve those goals, such as how the report is formatted or the size of the logo.

If the report succeeds, offer encouragement. If it doesn’t, hold them accountable.

Instead of being overly involved, your role as a team manager is to:

  • Define high-level objectives that teams are working towards and clarify why they’re important.
  • Clarify roles and responsibilities, so you can trust that people with the requisite experience or expertise are in charge of specific steps in a workflow.
  • Provide resources including information, budget, headcount, and support at the executive level that gives people the confidence and scope to execute.
  • Set boundaries and standards, so people understand the limitations they can work within and the quality of outputs required to meet expectations. 
  • NOT manage every aspect of every person’s day, which requires respecting people’s time and energy—part of being a great manager is protecting employees from overwhelm.

Important!

Your team will organise their dynamic and flow. You can remain a sounding board and mentor in times of need. 

6. Create Systems That Support Autonomy And Team Productivity.

One way to improve team performance is by encouraging autonomy. Done properly, your team will feel empowered to achieve results.

The foundation of achieving this kind of well-oiled machine has been covered in previous points:

  • Defining clear areas of responsibility,
  • Paying attention to being a communicative and supportive leader that encourages feedback, and
  • Demonstrating trust by giving people flexibility in how they deliver.

But on top of that, you need to create a system that facilitates independent work while keeping employees aligned with expectations and company objectives.

Effective structures and tools can also reinforce the boundaries you’ve set, reduce unnecessary interruptions and ensure your team remains focused on big-picture goals rather than getting distracted by day-to-day minutiae.

Some key components of a system that supports autonomy include:

  • Create small teams with decision-making powers. Structuring workloads so that people have just a few collaborators, and can make and act on certain decisions quickly, will vastly increase efficiency and lead to more innovation.
  • Make information easily accessible. Most businesses would have some cloud document storage these days, but that doesn’t mean useful information is easy to find. A renewed focus on ensuring important details about processes and projects is actually documented and available — perhaps through software — will cut down on wasted time looking for background material, so employees have what they need to begin.
  • Provide project management tools that clarify workloads, timeframes, priorities, and tasks. When well-managed, such software provides a powerful guidepost for employees so they can direct their time and energy where needed. It can also help managers spot unmanageable workloads and redistribute tasks to avoid overwhelming employees.
  • Asynchronous communication. Encouraging slower response times enables people to focus on work that matters. It requires a mindset change: not expecting subordinates to respond urgently to every email. Tools also help — messaging and collaboration platforms that enable team-wide communication that people can view when they’re available, and also act as a centralised source of truth that keeps everyone on the same page.

7. Encourage Collaboration (With Fewer Unnecessary Meetings).

“If you want to go fast, go alone, but if you want to go far, go together.” This African proverb from Martha Goedert encompasses the spirit of team effectiveness. 

We’ve explained why creating the right conditions for people to work autonomously helps improve team effectiveness. But workplace productivity isn’t possible without some degree of collaboration among team members.

Collaborating in meaningful ways solidifies our sense of belonging and helps us refine and expand on ideas developed in isolation.

The best way to encourage collaboration is: 

  • Shared Goals: All team members should feel inspired and connected to the company’s overall vision.
  • Open Communication: In the modern working world, cross-functional teams are far more productive than those with strict hierarchies and closed-door policies. The uptake and support for tools you introduce to facilitate better communication are also important.
  • Networking: Give people a chance to get to know each other outside transactional exchanges via email, such as targeted team-building activities. Personal relationships make team members feel more comfortable reaching out for help and working on tasks together. 

People who actively contribute to a greater vision will contribute more meaningfully. Consider having your company vision in view in the workplace as a reminder to employees.

When collaboration lacks purpose, productivity suffers.

A prime example of poor collaboration is ineffective meetings. We’ve all suffered through meetings and thought, “This could have been an email.” Such meetings significantly lower productivity and motivation.

Even just one hour in an unnecessary or draining team meeting can interrupt the flow of a person’s day and reduce their ability to focus and produce quality work.

Ways to avoid meetings that prevent people from performing:

  • Don’t schedule a meeting where other forms of communication will be easier for the group to digest information at their leisure (e.g., via email, or by recording your thoughts via video).
  • Don’t keep recurrent meetings without knowing there are specific agenda items that need to be addressed, and being certain they require face-to-face interaction.
  • Even if matters require talking through, try to minimise time spent in the meeting by requiring people to read and share thoughts or questions in writing first (so you know they’ve considered the topic in advance).
  • Only ever invite the people who genuinely need to be there. Including people with no control over a decision merely wastes their time.

Expert Tip.

Reserve meetings for bigger projects and strategic conversations. Don’t set an appointment if you can communicate concisely with those people in the office or on a call.

When you do hold meetings, focus on the following: 

  • Run them effectively. Have a clear agenda, actionable items, and deliverables. Click here for a template you can edit. 
  • Meetings must start and end on time; respect your team’s time and tasks. 
  • Avoid stacking meetings back to back. You want to ensure everyone is fresh and alert when attending.

(Related: 7 Rules For Western Executives Leading Teams In Eastern Cultures).

8. Recognise Every Success.

Having leadership skills, you’ll be accustomed to planning ahead and constantly pushing the team forward. However, they can also mean you easily overlook wins because you are too focused on setting new goals.

Celebrating successes is essential. Acknowledge the team’s performance and take respite before pushing for the next achievement.

You can celebrate by:

  • Celebration: Ensure employees feel their commitment and performance have not gone unnoticed. You can read our ideas for recognition programs here.
  • Personal awards: Take the time to appreciate each team member’s effort privately or publicly, whichever is their preference. 
  • Group rewards: Celebrate the team performance by treating the office to a celebration – for example, a lunch party, a meal, an all-expenses-paid trip, or gift bags.

A celebration is an excellent way to improve team productivity and strengthen cohesion.

Final Thoughts About How To Improve Team Performance.

Improving employee engagement involves consistent effort and adjustment from you, the leader. It requires dedication and commitment to enforce your team’s dynamic as one that is respectful, collaborative, and visionary. 

You must lead by example and model optimal performance through your behaviour as a team leader.

Implement these seven tips to start seeing significant improvements in team productivity and performance in the coming year, and you’ll be proud to lead a high-performance team.

Steven

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7 Rules For Western Executives Leading Teams In Eastern Cultures 4.9 (63) https://arielle.com.au/leadership-western-eastern-cultures/ https://arielle.com.au/leadership-western-eastern-cultures/#respond Thu, 17 Jul 2025 00:32:00 +0000 https://arielle.com.au/?p=82828 Reading Time: 5 minutesI have been fortunate in my career to lead large teams across the globe, including multi-year stints on the ground]]> Reading Time: 5 minutes

I have been fortunate in my career to lead large teams across the globe, including multi-year stints on the ground in India and China, where I was responsible for several thousand employees.

People often ask me about leadership differences between the West and India/China. 

Specifically, how should leaders from the West adapt their style to be successful?

Whilst I am hesitant to generalise too much, below are 7 lessons I have learnt on the journey.

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1. Recognise That Trust Is Earned And Not Given.

Many western leaders confuse respect for hierarchy, which is undoubtedly more pronounced in the East, with a willingness to go the extra mile for their manager. 

The reality is that they are very different.

  • In the West, trust in a manager is usually implied.
  • In the East, it has to be built bottom up. 

I remember very clearly my new leader assimilation in China, where one of my team asked, “how do I earn your trust” to which I answered, “you start with 100% trust, it can only go down”. 

The whole team looked at me like I was from another planet. 

Too many abuses of trust have happened in recent China history for trust to be assumed, so leaders must work doubly hard to show they care for the team and their interests. 

Whilst it takes longer, the good news is that once teams do trust their leader, they are incredibly loyal and will go well beyond the call of duty to make that leader successful.

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2. A Growth Leadership Mindset Matters. 

By growth, I mean top line. 

When I moved from leading the UK business to leading the India business, I talked about the EBITDA improvements I had driven as a means of establishing my credentials. 

It had the opposite effect.

The thinking in India and China is that if you spend a lot of time on cost management, you are short of ideas on how to grow the top line. 

Important!

Opportunities abound in fast-growing economies, so the leadership mindset has to shift very quickly to “how can I fund and resource as many of these opportunities as I can” and ensure the strategy has a healthy mix of both short-term and long-term bets. 

Cost management and productivity are, of course, also important.

Still, the starting point has to be “how can I maximise topline growth and create a sustainable, healthy environment to reward and grow the team?” 

A simple but important pivot.

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3. It’s All About Face. 

Although there is currently some hype around Chinese youth “lying flat”, the vast majority of employees work extremely hard and want to be successful and also be seen to be successful. 

The latter, in particular, sets India and China apart from the West. 

Perception matters a lot. It’s all about face. 

It’s not just the employee that has to feel good about the company – the employee’s family also has to feel good about it. 

Social media is prolific, employees want to share their awards, talk about exciting innovations their company has brought to market, and demonstrate that they have made good use of their education. 

Leadership Tip.

Leaders must tap into this psyche, ensuring the right opportunities and recognition. 

A downside is that “turnaround assignments” are more difficult to sell to employees, as they often have many options and don’t want to take the potentially career-threatening risk of being seen to be in charge of something unsuccessful.

As a leader, you must work hard to explain the benefits and learning that comes with such an assignment and reassure that the potential reward far outweighs the risk.

Again, establishing trust is very important here.

4. Beware Of The Meeting Outside The Meeting. 

In the West, we are used to getting all the views out on the table and making decisions in the meeting. 

In the East, you have to work very hard to create an inclusive and risk-free environment where everyone can express their honest view. 

More often than not, the meeting is more about hearing out the leader. 

Then the real discussion and lobbying happen in small groups afterwards, with a sole representative eventually talking to the leader one-on-one about what the group thinks and what decision should be made. 

  • Whilst this seems alien to most Western managers, it can be a very effective way of getting to the right decision point. 
  • However, if you want to avoid the meeting outside the meeting, be clear up-front about expectations and make sure you actively include everyone in the discussion.

(Related: 4 Pillars Of Transformational Leadership).

5. Don’t Judge Someone By The Quality Of Their Business Case. 

In the West, we put a big premium on being articulate and being able to explain why something is a good idea. We are taught that story matters.

In the East, the focus is much more on the idea itself. 

I have seen so many brilliant ideas in India and China not get traction because the story was not compelling.

As Western leaders working in the East, we must be very attuned to this, ensuring we support the best ideas and not just the best stories. 

Coaching top talent to improve confidence and communication skills is incredibly rewarding and should be a priority for leaders, especially those operating within multinational corporations.

(Related: How To Calculate Your Net Profit Margin).

6. India And China Speed Is Real.

It’s difficult to grasp this until you experience it. 

India and China are evolving rapidly. In the last 10 years their combined GDP has grown by 110% compared to 19% in the rest of the world.

Technology adoption and new business models are at the forefront of the economy, and the competitive environment is intense. 

In this context, fast decision-making is critical. Get ready to make decisions over WhatsApp or WeChat at a moment’s notice. 

Agility can be a differentiator in the West. However, it is a base expectation in the East. 

It’s incumbent on leaders to do everything they can to unblock processes and complexity that get in the way of fast decision-making.  

For example, be mindful that heavily matrixed organisations and multiple global reporting lines are often part of why multinational firms in India and China are out-manoeuvred by local players. 

The speed is exhilarating, but be ready to be “always on”.

7. Don’t Pretend To Be The Market Expert.

Never forget you won’t know the market or culture as well as your team. You can be the expert in your home country, but not when you’re away from home.

Admit that early on.

The team will respect you more, and it will ground your thinking, ensuring you surround yourself with the right experts to help you make the right calls.

It is, however, very important to build your knowledge and show a willingness to learn. 

  • Shortly after I arrived in India, one of my team gave me a book called “the argumentative Indian” which I devoured to help me better understand meeting dynamics.  
  • In China, I did a lot of knowledge-building before I got to the market.

On my video introduction call to my new team, before I landed in the market, I showed several books I was reading.

I didn’t think too much of it, but that memory was played back by my team time and time again in the following years as the proof they were looking for that I was going to be a humble leader.

Learning about local culture can, of course, be really fun as well.

Throw yourself into karaoke with the team in China. Dance like crazy with the team in India. They will love it … and so will you!

Bottom Line About Leadership Differences Between East vs West.

These lessons, of course, aren’t comprehensive, but hopefully they will help fast-track the learning process for leaders moving from Western markets to India and China. 

Let me also stress that whilst there are differences in leadership, there are also many similarities, my advice for leaders is always to be authentic, empathic, strategic and empowering. 

Such traits will stand you in good stead everywhere.

Justin

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How To Write An Employee Termination Letter 4.7 (37) https://arielle.com.au/employee-termination-letter/ https://arielle.com.au/employee-termination-letter/#respond Tue, 30 Jan 2024 00:16:50 +0000 https://arielle.com.au/?p=99724 Reading Time: 10 minutesThere are fewer things in our working lives that are more difficult than issuing an employee with a termination letter]]> Reading Time: 10 minutes

There are fewer things in our working lives that are more difficult than issuing an employee with a termination letter – unless you’re Gary Vaynerchuk or Elon Musk.

American entrepreneur Gary Vaynerchuk is a proponent of “hire fast, fire fast”, and Elon Musk showed little remorse when firing 80% of Twitter staff when he took over.

As much as I appreciate their qualities, when it comes to how to treat people, I’m in a different camp – and given you’ve arrived here, I suspect you’re a little more conscientious too.

Here’s how to terminate an employee the right way – taking into consideration Australia’s Fair Work Act 2009 and Small Business Dismissal Code.

(Related: How To Double The Productivity Of Your Employees).

Consider The Impact On The Recipient.

There are two dimensions to writing a human, effective, employee termination letter:

  • How you treat people (the human aspect).
  • The art of writing (as well as legal protocols you must follow).

I will cover both, starting with the human aspect.

The very first thing you should do is put yourself in the employee’s shoes.

Important!

Being terminated will occur as a shock/surprise to a lot of people.

They’ll experience a spectrum of emotions as they read their termination letter, the overriding feeling being one of fear.

Take a moment to process that.

How To Deliver The News.

During my corporate career, I did a four-year stint at a subsidiary of the biggest international grocery retailer in the world. The American influence of no-mercy hiring and firing was prevalent.

Every few years, there was a cull of employees.

Oblivious employees turned up to work one day, not knowing it was their last.

People were crying or fighting back tears as they exited their termination meetings. They returned to their desks to collect their personal belongings before saying goodbye.

Soul-destroying as that was for them, it was heartbreaking for those who “survived” the cut.

There was a severe detachment and lack of loyalty because those employees never forgot the way their colleagues were unceremoniously axed.

When issuing a termination letter:

  • Present the letter in a private meeting with management and human resources present.
  • Avoid unnecessary small talk and tell the employee right off the bat why you’re letting them go.
  • Allow ample time after delivering the news for the employee to absorb the news.

Find a discreet meeting room situated away from the wider team (preferably with soundproof walls).

Expert Tip.

Book that meeting room for an additional 15 minutes to allow the employee some time alone to make some calls and figure out the necessary steps they need to take from here.

At some stage, they’ll need to:

  • Gather their belongings from their desk and locker.
  • Return company property.

Facilitating this shortly after you’ve broken the news is poor timing.

Where possible, give the employee the option to return out-of-hours or during off-peak times.

Would you want to walk through an open office with red eyes and flushed cheeks and bid everyone a heartfelt goodbye?

Most prefer privacy.

What if this particular person is a bad apple?

Some employees leave on bad terms. If you’re firing an employee for serious misconduct, the employee will have at least suspected this was coming.

You will (or should) have given them verbal warnings and a written warning.

What if this person made your life a living hell? What if they were late, rude, arrogant, and abusive?

(Related: How To Improve Performance & Cohesion Of Your Team).

You’ll feel the temptation to write a retaliatory termination letter that delivers a satisfying final blow.

However, no matter how poor-performing they were, avoid the temptation to write a termination letter that aggravates them.

Using smug language could backfire. Some people feel so aggrieved that they’ll:

  • Vandalise property.
  • Leave scathing reviews online, damaging your employer brand.
  • Fail to return company property like laptops and phones.
  • Sabotage the company systems like chatbots and customer accounts.

Important!

Ex-employees causing havoc can cost your business thousands. End the employment relationship amicably by treating them respectfully. Take solace in the fact you’ll never have to deal with them again.

What Tone Should I Use?

I won’t dwell on tone too much since I provide two comprehensive templates below that you can use.

But if you decide to deviate from that, you must ensure the tone of your termination letter is formal and professional.

In the worst-case scenario, your letter could be used as evidence in court or a workplace tribunal.

You want to refrain from:

  • Making any jokes – personal jokes will go down like a lead balloon.
  • Using sympathetic language – be sensitive but not excessively emotional.
  • Writing sarcastic comments – you may unwittingly trigger the employee to seek revenge.

Your termination letter should read like legal documentation (because that’s exactly what it is).

(Related: How To Write An Employee Reference Letter).

How To Comply With The Fair Work Act 2009.

You don’t want to find yourself in hot water – and by that, I mean attending court or a workplace tribunal due to unfair dismissal.

The contents of your letter of termination need to be written in accordance with the Fair Work Act 2009.

(Related: What Is A Genuine Redundancy?)

Prior to sending a termination letter, you must warn the employee (for the sake of evidence, written warnings are best) of their serious misconduct or performance issues.

You then need to:

  • Identify the issues with the employee’s conduct.
  • Set out what is required of the employee to address these concerns.
  • Determine a measurable improvement that is to be reviewed at a predetermined date.

If you need more information, check out the Fair Work Ombudsman, the regulator of workplace laws.

Can an employee sue for unfair dismissal?

Employees seeking compensation can launch legal proceedings and sue employers if they feel they have been unfairly dismissed.

The Fair Work Commission (FWC) defines unfair dismissal as:

  • The dismissal was harsh, unjust, or unreasonable
  • The dismissal was not a case of genuine redundancy
  • The employee worked for a small business, and the dismissal was not done according to the Small Business Fair Dismissal Code.

Even though the commission aims to protect employees, just because an employee files a claim does not guarantee the proceeding will go in their favour.

The FWC rejected an unfair dismissal claim by Suzie Cheikho, consultant at Insurance Australia Group (IAG).

She was sacked after her employer found that she “wasn’t typing fast enough”.

IAG claimed to have evidence that showed Chiekho’s keystroke activity, and that she “failed to work her rostered hours for 44 days of the 49 days monitored.”

The FWC found that the dismissal was valid and not “harsh, unjust, or unreasonable”.

What Is Harsh, Unjust Or Unreasonable?

The FWC bases their decisions on whether an employee’s termination was harsh, unjust, or unreasonable.

That may sound a little vague, but here are some criteria for what that constitutes:

  • No valid reason for the dismissal was given in relation to the employee’s capacity or conduct
  • The employee wasn’t notified of that reason, nor were they given an opportunity to respond.
  • The employee had no access to a “support person” during discussions about the dismissal.
  • The employee wasn’t warned that their performance was unsatisfactory.
  • A lack of dedicated human expertise impacts the procedures the employer followed.
  • Any other matters the Fair Work Commission considers relevant.

That last bullet point suggests that not everything is always black and white and that the FWC can exercise their power in more complicated circumstances.

Important!

To apply to the Fair Work Commission for unfair dismissal, an employee must have worked for at least 6 months in a large business or 12 months in a small business (fewer than 15 employees). An employee’s earnings must also be below the high-income threshold ($167,500 in 2023).

What is the Small Business Fair Dismissal Code?

You might occasionally hear the term “Small Business Fair Dismissal Code” bandied around when researching Australian laws and regulations.

Expert Tip.

The Small Business Fair Dismissal Code applies to employers with fewer than 15 employees, and has different rules when it comes to employee dismissal – but the principle is largely the same as the Fair Work Act.

A checklist is available to help employers comply with the code.

If an employee submits a claim against an employer, the employer needs to provide evidence that shows they are compliant with the code.

What’s the difference between the code and the Fair Work Act?

The official code is a paltry 300-word document, and I can’t quite understand why so much weight has been attributed to this.

The Fair Work Act pretty much covers the same thing. Surely an amendment to this act would have been more effective?

Seems like a waste of tax dollars if you ask me. Although I’d genuinely love someone to correct me in the comments below.

The only distinguishable difference between the code and the act is where the code says:

“In [procedural matters] where dismissal is possible, the employee can have another person present to assist. However, the other person cannot be a lawyer acting in a professional capacity.”

Employee Termination Letter Template (Disciplinary Action).

With all that in mind, here are two employee termination template letters: the first is tailored to when termination is a result of disciplinary actions, and the second is for when the company is making a strategic decision to downsize or go in a different direction.

Dear [employee name],

Over the last [denote period in weeks/months], we have assessed your [performance/conduct] against your performance improvement plan, and we regret to inform you that we are terminating your employment at [company name] due to failing to meet our previously agreed-upon targets.

We understand this news may be difficult to process, and we strongly recommend you take this opportunity to reflect on your actions and make improvements accordingly before reentering the workforce.

You are entitled to your salary up until [termination date], and you will also be compensated for any outstanding annual leave you have accrued. In addition, you will receive a separate letter from [HR team/designated team member]with the details of your severance pay and how much you’re entitled to receive.

I’m obliged to remind you of the non-solicitation and non-disclosure agreement you signed when joining [company name] (attached to this letter). Even after you depart the company, these legally binding agreements will remain in effect. Under those agreements, you must delete any information about our stakeholders (such as customers, suppliers, and colleagues) that is stored on your personal devices.

Either your line manager or a member of the HR team will be in touch to retrieve any company property that you currently possess, such as your laptop, carry case, smartphone, chargers, and locker keys.

If you have any further questions, please don’t hesitate to get in touch with [HR team/designated team member] at [email address]. In all cases, we are committed to providing fair and accurate employment references to any prospective employers.

We wish you the best of luck in your future endeavours.

[signature]

[your name]

Employee Termination Letter Template (Strategic Decision).

Dear [employee name],

It’s with sincere regret that I am writing to inform you that we are terminating your employment at [company name] due to [specific reason for termination].

Given the competitive challenges [company name] faces, we had no choice but to take some drastic action and restructure the ailing parts of the business, which means it is no longer financially viable to place staff in certain roles.

I want you to know that this has been a decision that has been subject to months of deliberation and we have tried where possible to avoid this outcome. I also understand this is an incredibly difficult situation for you and that you will need time to figure out your options.

In the meantime, I want to be the first to express that your contributions have not gone unnoticed, and I recognise the enormous impact your departure will have on the business. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for all your hard work during your time working here.

Your salary will be paid in full up until [termination date], and you will, of course, be compensated for any outstanding annual leave you have accrued. In addition, you will receive a separate letter from [HR team/designated team member]that contains details of how much severance pay you’re entitled to.

Whilst the timing of this may seem insensitive, I am obliged to remind you of two legally binding agreements you signed when joining the company (attached to this letter): a non-solicitation and a non-disclosure agreement. These agreements still remain in effect upon termination of your employment. You must delete any information about our customers, employees, or other stakeholders stored on your personal devices.

Either your line manager or a member of the HR team will be in touch to retrieve any company property that you currently possess, such as your laptop, carry case, smartphone, chargers, and locker keys. We appreciate your cooperation in returning those at your earliest convenience.

If you have any further questions, please don’t hesitate to get in touch with [HR team/designated team member] at [email address].

Once again, thank you for all your excellent contributions to our company’s performance and culture.

[signature]

[your name]

Final Word On The Employee Termination Process.

Terminating an employee’s contract rarely engenders a positive response – unless you’re offering a generous severance payment.

Most, however, will be upset and angry. Do you want them to take that anger out in the workplace?

Important!

Think carefully about how much notice you give. Your termination letter might demand that the employee fulfil their contractual obligations for the remainder of their notice period. Good luck with that.

You can expect high absenteeism. It’s better to pay them in lieu of their notice period. Don’t give them an opportunity to sabotage company assets or team morale. That’s a commercial decision you will need to weigh up.

Frequently Asked Questions About Termination Letters.

Here are some frequently asked questions that will help you write a professional termination letter.

Does an employee have to sign a termination letter?

Ordinarily, an employee doesn’t need to sign a termination letter, but the sender should.

If the termination letter constitutes an offer of some sort, like a severance package, then an employee would be required to sign this if they wish to accept the offer.

Severance packages tend to stipulate that the employee waives any right to sue the company or pursue claims against it after their employment contract has been terminated.

An employee may not want to forfeit those rights if they believe they have been wrongfully dismissed.

An employee should seek legal counsel if they are unsure how to proceed.

What constitutes an unlawful termination?

It is unlawful to terminate an employee’s contract based on:

  • Protected attributes, such as race, sex, or political opinion
  • A temporary absence from work due to illness or injury
  • An absence during maternity leave or other parental leave
  • Their membership in a trade union or participation in industrial activities
  • The lodging of a formal complaint or participating in proceedings against an employer.

Employees who believe they have been unfairly dismissed can apply to the Fair Work Commission within 21 days of the dismissal taking effect.

What are protected attributes in Australia?

Under the Fair Work Act in Australia, the following are protected attributes: race, colour, sex, sexual orientation, age, physical or mental disability, marital status, family or carer’s responsibilities, pregnancy, religion, political opinion, national extraction, social origin, breastfeeding, gender identity, and intersex status.

Bizarrely, hair colour isn’t a protected attribute – and I think it’s high time it carried equal status as the aforementioned. Some harmful stereotypes still prevail in the workplace today, particularly for people with red and blonde hair.

Tommy

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Ultimate Guide To Dealing With Conflict In The Workplace 4.7 (44) https://arielle.com.au/conflict-in-the-workplace/ https://arielle.com.au/conflict-in-the-workplace/#respond Wed, 24 Jan 2024 05:40:00 +0000 https://arielle.com.au/?p=99511 Reading Time: 12 minutesHave you ever heard yourself saying, “I don’t get paid enough to deal with this”? This frustration arises when a]]> Reading Time: 12 minutes

Have you ever heard yourself saying, “I don’t get paid enough to deal with this”? This frustration arises when a colleague repeatedly rubs you the wrong way. If workplace conflict keeps you up at night or you dread returning to work, you need to improve your conflict resolution skills.

However, not all conflict is negative. Organisational change and conflict are two sides of the same coin.

Seventy-six percent of workers report conflict leading to improvements, and 9% say it has led to the birth of a major innovation.

The key to success is learning to identify the root causes of conflict and managing it appropriately. Let me show you how.

Important!

Unresolved conflict doesn’t disappear. It festers and manifests in resentment, withdrawal or passive-aggressive behaviours. You must learn to embrace conflict – especially if you aspire to senior leadership ranks.

The Three Types Of Conflict & Their Layers.

Let’s start by shedding the unrealistic belief that you can avoid workplace conflict altogether.

Conflict is ubiquitous – you’ll encounter it in every team of every organisation.

American psychologist Daniel Katz argues that conflict broadly arises in three forms:

  • Economic conflict. Occurs when peers compete to attain scarce resources (e.g., two employees competing for a management vacancy).
  • Value conflict. An incompatibility in the way of life, such as ideologies, morals, and values (e.g., workplace dispute over the company’s marketing strategy).
  • Power conflict. When a party tries to maximise its influence in a relationship or social setting (e.g., a manager exercises undue influence to settle a personal vendetta).

The layers of conflict.

Beneath these three types of conflict, you’ll find nuanced layers that are influenced by the dynamic of the parties involved. Conflict can be:

Interpersonal conflictWhen two people have beef with one another.
Intrapersonal conflictA psychological conflict that takes place within a person’s mind; ever lie awake at night or stand in the shower thinking about all the things you really wanted to say to that other person?
Intergroup conflictWhen two or more different groups clash in their approach or opinions.
Intragroup conflictThis happens between two individuals within the same tribe.

Each type and each layer of conflict warrants a different approach.

(Related: 9 Best Password Managers In Australia).

The North Star Of Workplace Conflict Management.

You’re only human and can’t switch your inner emotions on and off on a whim – but you can control your outer behaviour and be respectful.

Dr Schulze and his team collected data from 152 researchers who work in reputable German institutions. They came up with a quiz and proscribed the respondents with a label:

  • Dominating – high respect for self, low respect for others.
  • Problem-solving – high respect for self, high respect for others.
  • Compromise – medium respect for self, medium respect for others.
  • Obliging – low respect for self, high respect for others.
  • Avoidance – low respect for self, low respect for others.

Those in the “Problem-solving” category have higher self-respect and respect for others. Use this as the North Star to guide you to being more respectful.

In short: absence of respect = presence of conflict.

So, how can we be more respectful to others as well as ourselves when we address conflict?

How To Manage Conflict.

I won’t spoon-feed you here with a list of self-evident examples and namby-pamby conflict resolution steps (Step 1: Make eye contact; Step 2: Find common ground; Step 3: Practise active listening…).

Your style is unique to you – whether you’re authoritarian, paternalistic, democratic, or laissez-faire.

If your style is Kim Jong Un, acting like Jacinda Ardern will come across as downright weird when trying to resolve conflict.

(Just to be clear, I’m an advocate of neither.)

Carry these philosophies with you into your intellectual battles to ensure you remain respectful.

1. You must be dispassionate.

If you’ve ever had the pleasure of sitting in a courtroom for jury service or in a public gallery, you might have heard the judge instruct the jury by saying, “Your duty is to be dispassionate”.

What do judges mean by that, to be dispassionate?

It means judging a situation based on facts, not opinions.

It’s synonymous with critical thinking and scientific methodology.

I was slightly mortified when one fellow juror insisted that the defendant ought to be let off the hook on the grounds that “He was only a young lad,” perhaps because, as she said herself, he reminded her of her troubled grandson.

This defendant had smashed another bloke’s head in with a baseball bat, by the way.

True story (though I wish it wasn’t).

Although she meant well, her compassion clouded her judgement.

Important!

You might despise someone’s political viewpoints, hairstyle, or screechy voice – or favour them because they remind you of your grandson – but such things should never influence your ability to arrive at a rational conclusion.

2. Nobody is the villain in their own story.

I believe most people have legitimate reasons for why they behave the way they do.

Nine out of 10 workers would sacrifice some of their earnings to do more meaningful work.

That tells you that people generally want to cooperate and do a good job.

So, imagine giving someone a verbal warning for their poor punctuality only to find they’re late because they’ve been supporting with school drop-offs for their niece because their parents have been involved in a critical accident.

Some things are way more important than your existing problem.

How should you go about resolving conflict, then?

Here’s a really simple technique I use when addressing difficult conversations: the Five Whys principle. Ask “why?” to every successive answer five times.

Why is his behaviour inappropriate?Because it’s unfair to the rest of the team, and it’s affecting staff morale and productivity.
Why is he unable to get to work on time?He said that he was stuck in traffic, but he’s never had any issues getting to work on time for the last nine years.
Why is he getting to work late?Maybe he has some personal issues that mean he is no longer able to commute at the same time.
Why hasn’t he spoken about his lack of punctuality?He could be too emotional or too embarrassed about what’s causing him to be late.
Why would he feel like that?Maybe something serious has happened that he doesn’t want to talk about.

This process leads you to a better understanding and helps you avoid unnecessary conflict.

How to manage the expectations of your team.

Other colleagues will be looking in from the outside. They might be expecting you to punish the employee, without knowing the full details.

You may feel like you have your hands tied.

But if you don’t communicate with the wider team, they may see this as an opportunity to flout the rules themselves and say, “If Robbie can get away with it, why should we bother turning up to work on time?”

Here’s how to nip that in the bud:

  • Gather the team together for a quick debrief.
  • Explain to them that you are dealing with the situation privately.
  • Don’t share any sensitive information about the colleague’s personal issues.
  • Ask them to refrain from probing the colleague with personal questions.
  • Invite the team to join you in supporting your colleague without over-egging it.

It’s a good idea to follow up with your team if anything changes or any new information comes to light.

(Related: How To Maximise Your Team’s Performance).

3. Let them save face.

If you’re winning an argument, don’t go for the jugular.

In How To Win Friends & Influence People, the classic published in 1936, one of the most profound tenets of Carnegie’s teachings is:

“Let the other person save face.”

Too often, we ride roughshod over other people’s feelings just to get our own way. We find fault, criticise, and issue threats without considering the pain we inflict on the other person.

If you want to become public enemy #1 in your workplace, go fight every single trivial battle and show no mercy.

Expert Tip.

Accruing a list of enemies will hurt your own standing in the social hierarchy.

How do you hope to secure a promotion if the hiring manager is drinking buddies with the colleague whom you publicly chastised for turning up late?

Small world.

(Related: How To Write An Employee Reference Letter).

When Conflict Is Good.

If you’re in a leadership role or want to be an effective leader one day, this one’s for you.

Until now, we’ve painted conflict in a bit of a depressing light. Not all conflict needs to be swept under the rug. Symptoms of a lack of conflict include:

  • Employees who aren’t passionate enough about the business to make a stand.
  • Stakeholders who are too afraid to talk over fear of repercussions.

A disagreement doesn’t always need to be destructive. That energy can be channelled into challenging the status quo and exploring a new perspective.

(Related: 100 Thank You Message Ideas For Your Colleagues).

Conflict is the playground of the maverick.

During conflict, we raise questions about new ideas and achieve breakthroughs in thinking.

Back in 1997, Apple almost filed for bankruptcy before Steve Jobs joined the company again (after being fired in 1985 by the board, team members who he himself appointed).

After plummeting sales, Jobs injected some life into the company with a rebrand and the launch of the new iMac.

You know the rest. Most of you are using one of his devices to read this right now.

Dan Helfrich, CEO of Deloitte Consulting LLP, says it best:

“The creation of a productive work environment where people willingly share contrary ideas… if you can create that environment, you have magic results.”

(Related: How To Write An Employee Termination Letter).

The difference between tension and friction.

Social environments are dynamic: tension is healthy conflict, friction is unhealthy conflict. When you’re experiencing tension, colleagues are moving towards the same goal but often have different means of getting there.

It feels:

  • Uncomfortable yet productive.
  • Like you’re being stretched and challenged.

Friction is when colleagues are unmotivated to move towards the same goal, and it feels as though:

  • Nobody values each other’s opinions.
  • Like people are antagonising one another.

Knowing the difference between tension and friction will save you a lot of trouble. If there is conflict in the workplace, and no one is listening, changing, or evolving, results will stagnate.

So will your career.

You must cultivate tension if you want your team to thrive.

How To Pick Your Battles.

You can’t just go into battle with everyone over every trivial frustration.

Sun Tzu quote (the ancient Chinese general and military strategist) says, “He will win who knows when to fight and when not to fight.”

Before engaging, you should consider the risk versus reward.

And there’s one question you should ask yourself that will help you determine the trade-off.

The all-important question.

Before you engage in workplace conflict, ask yourself, “What’s in it for me?” Asking that helps you frame what you have to gain and lose. Quite often, we have more to lose than gain.

Seventeenth-century author Jonathan Swift says, “One enemy can do more hurt than ten friends can do good.”

Some people set out to make a tonne of friends, but a more strategic angle would be to focus on making the fewest enemies.

That doesn’t mean you have to pussyfoot around others, though.

You already have the emotional intelligence required.

You’re already in the habit of picking your battles.

When the McDonald’s cashier forgot to give you ketchup with your order, but you only realised after you’d left the drive-thru, do you drive back and yell at them or get on with your day?

Trivial, right?

Some would drive back and go berserk, others would let it slide.

We all have different tolerance levels. What are yours? Is it possible that someone is being annoying, or is it possible that you’re way too emotionally invested?

Have you ever seen Elon Musk lose his shit in public or during an interview?

Well, yes, once or twice.

But Jeff Bezos? Mark Zuckerberg? Warren Buffett?

Never.

Important!

These are some of the world’s richest men. They didn’t get to where they are by lashing out at every turn, despite being constantly provoked. They’re consummate practitioners of emotional restraint. Emulate them.

The consequences of resolving conflict and ignoring it.

If you’re prepared to defend your viewpoint and assert yourself, you need to know the potential consequences.

  • Beating someone in an argument is humiliating for them.
  • Conflict is emotionally draining and impacts your well-being.
  • Further tension can arise and decrease the morale of the team.

But what are the consequences of not engaging?

  • Turning a blind eye makes you look like a pushover.
  • If you sit there and do nothing, the problem could well escalate.

Either way, we don’t have a crystal ball.

Humans are so unpredictable. The only behaviour you can control is your own. Is the likelihood of making an enemy high? If so, what kind of problems might such a person cause you if you do engage?

How To Hold People To Account Respectfully.

Patrick Lencioni, the author of the bestseller The Five Dysfunctions of a Team, developed a framework that shows the main obstacles preventing teams from reaching success.

  • Absence of trust.
  • Fear of conflict.
  • Lack of commitment.
  • Avoidance of accountability.
  • Inattention to results.

All have their roots in conflict. But I want to hone in specifically on the concept of accountability – the enemy within our respective businesses.

When people start slacking, you need to learn how to frame your feedback so as not to trigger them (and others). Here’s how to hold people accountable.

1. Make the first move and address the elephant in the room.

If you hesitate or engage in small talk, waiting for the right opening in the conversation, you’re just wasting time, our most precious commodity.

When sitting down with a colleague to resolve conflicts, the chances are that you’re both wondering who is going to make the first move.

Make the first move and:

  • Be specific about the issue.
  • Clarify expectations.
  • Provide constructive feedback.

Always hear them out and give them a chance to share their perspective and insights when you’ve had your say.

2. Focus on behaviour, not personality.

There is a subtle art to giving feedback, and it involves choosing our words carefully. If we focus on the behaviour rather than the person, our feedback will be received in more positively.

For instance, which sounds better?

  • You’re just too slow, and we need it done faster” (personal).
  • You’ve been a little slower than usual” (behaviour).

The former statement implies that the person is fundamentally flawed and unchangeable, whereas the latter implies that the flaw is a temporary issue that can be remedied.

(Related: Four Types Of Feedback Every Manager Must Know).

3. Minimise collateral damage.

Even in war, there are international rules and regulations on the use of certain weaponry and explosives.

Isn’t it crazy that the term “war crimes” is a thing? The rules are there to minimise and prevent collateral damage.

That’s what you need to do in the workplace.

You can’t go in all guns blazing, slinging mud at an entire team or department.

If you have to challenge a person, isolate the issue with the person responsible for the issue.

Which is going to come across better?

  • Conversation with the team: I’m getting really sick of seasonal sales lagging behind our target – we’re all going to have to work harder to bridge the gap.
  • Private conversation with the individual responsible: Our sales are behind target because the seasonal promotion didn’t go live on our website. Do you have any idea what caused this?

Like It Or Not, You’re A Product Of Social Darwinian.

Let’s zoom out for a minute and look at human behaviour. In fact, scratch that; let’s look at animal behaviour.

Chimpanzees, our closest relatives in the animal kingdom, have a social hierarchy not dissimilar to ours.

After all, humans share about 99% of our DNA with chimpanzees.

Whether you like it or not, you’re living in a dynamic social hierarchy.

Some (but not all) of those around us are vying for power.

Okay, so we’re not as violent as our hairy cousins and don’t tear each other limb from limb during a dispute (even though you might sometimes have intrusive thoughts about a certain passive-aggressive “Karen”).

Adult chimpanzees acquire their dominance using aggression and coalitionary behaviour. Is that any different to how we humans operate?

  • We assert ourselves to get what we want (aggression).
  • We align ourselves with a tribe for security and personal gain (coalitions).

Most of us are competing, climbing, and pursuing status, and conflict is the main ingredient of natural selection.

Important!

Without conflict, there would be no struggle – no winners and losers in nature or the workplace.

Power hierarchies vs. competence hierarchies.

I’m willing to bet that at some point in your career, you’ve looked at one leader and thought, “How the hell did they get into that position?” You only have to look at international politics for recent examples of overachievers.

But are they really overachievers?

You don’t have to be a chest-thumping alpha male to succeed in the 21st century. We’re in the Information Age, not the Stone Age.

Power is an ambiguous term.

Jordan Peterson, the modern-day philosopher and psychologist, suggests that instead of referring to them as power (or dominance) hierarchies, we should refer to them as competence hierarchies.

He says this because outright dominance isn’t always favoured.

  • A dominant manager may offend team members which may be detrimental to performance.
  • An empathetic manager cares for their team and engenders mutual respect.

Different hierarchies exist within different organisations.

Erik ten Hag’s disciplinarian strategy works at Manchester United (disclaimer: this may not age well), and Mikel Arteta’s softer approach works at Arsenal.

Wherever you sit in the hierarchy, whatever your leadership style, if you want to climb the social hierarchy, you need to know what the “currency” is for climbing.

Is it dominance, empathy, or something else?

Final Word On Conflict Resolution In The Workplace.

Two points of view don’t have to be mutually exclusive; we don’t have to be diametrically opposed to one another’s beliefs. A team member who argues that remote working increases productivity can be demonstrably right; so too can a manager who argues the opposite.

Beware of your automatic inclination to refute those who disagree with you, and always leave room for the possibility that you could be wrong.

None of us are infallible.

Tommy

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How To Improve Communication In The Workplace 4.6 (36) https://arielle.com.au/communication-in-the-workplace/ https://arielle.com.au/communication-in-the-workplace/#respond Tue, 16 Jan 2024 03:34:30 +0000 https://arielle.com.au/?p=99468 Reading Time: 8 minutesDemand for employees with strong collaboration and communication skills has continued to climb – especially for hybrid and remote roles.]]> Reading Time: 8 minutes

Demand for employees with strong collaboration and communication skills has continued to climb – especially for hybrid and remote roles.

The idea will be self-evident if you’ve ever worked in an organisation with more than five people. Confusion, mistakes, mistrust and resentment tend to stem from poor communication in the workplace.

One study found that 86% of employees blame a lack of collaboration or ineffective communication for workplace failures.

Communication failures cost businesses billions annually.

As a manager, you must improve your communication capabilities to tackle the cultural and structural barriers preventing good communication across your workplace.

I’ve gathered 7 ways you can improve communication at work right away.

(Related: Top 21 Non-Cringey Zoom Ice Breakers).

Why Is Workplace Communication Important?

A work environment where communication is clear, regular, purposeful and constructive leads to:

  • Fewer workplace conflicts.
  • Higher level of employee engagement and retention.
  • More efficient workflows,higher productivity and reduced costs.

That’s because communication – especially verbal communication – underpins almost every work activity.

An often-cited study published in the Journal of Communication found that we spend between 50% – 80% of every workday communicating, with two-thirds of that time spent talking.

Important!

Text-based communication tools (e.g., email and Slack) have increased our reliance on written communication, but the need to verbally exchange information with colleagues and customers hasn’t abated.

Why Improve Workplace Communication Skills?

The State of Business Communication report by Grammarly shows that our ability to get work done strongly depends on how well we communicate with other team members.

Important!

Communication can only be considered effective when the message or intent is successfully received, understood and acted on.

Business leaders surveyed for the report said the main benefits of effective communication were:

  • Increased productivity (72%). Better communication leads to less confusion, which prevents mistakes and increases your team’s output.
  • Increased customer satisfaction (63%). Most customer issues occur due to poorly communicated expectations.
  • Increased employee confidence (60%). Employees who can’t communicate effectively will struggle to feel engaged.

But effective communication doesn’t happen by chance. It’s intentional.

Here’s an excellent example: research published in the Harvard Business Review found that high-performing teams are more than three times more likely to begin a new project by first discussing how they will work together (rather than simply assigning tasks and getting started).

This small change in workplace communication creates superior conditions for smoother team collaboration.

(Related: Ultimate Guide To Delegation Of Authority).

Why Leaders Must Learn To Communicate Effectively.

If you’re a leader or frontline manager, your subordinates will expect you to set an example for what effective communication looks like.

But it’s not just what you say. It’s also when and how you say it.

Communication is contextual and time-sensitive, and getting your message across also depends on the mindset and preferences of your intended audience.

(Related: 9 Best Password Managers In Australia).

For example:

  • An in-person pat on the back and genuine “great job!” in the moment could have more impact on a team member than a verbose ‘thank you’ email to the whole team sent a week after the project ends.
  • An analytics report with strictly curated, commercially relevant insights, delivered at the end of the financial year, could be more useful than a monthly data dump delivered to your boss via email.

Your approach to communication in the workplace will also be influenced by whether you’re communicating:

Top-down, to your direct reports.They may require guidance, encouragement or prompting to remain accountable.
Laterally, at an equal hierarchical level.These folks expect you to foster teamwork and provide cross-functional support.
Upwards, to your manager, senior executives or the Board.Senior decision-makers expect you to communicate precisely, respectfully and without fluff.
To customers/clients.This stakeholder group expects a friendly, positive (possibly advisory) tone, consistent with your company’s branding.

7 Proven Ways To Improve Workplace Communication.

Best communicators constantly look for opportunities to improve their communication methods. I recommend you focus on one of the recommendations below each month.

1. Set Clear Expectations.

Build processes that outline how and when communication happens:

  • Which communication type is required for different kinds of messages or tasks? For example, when is a written report expected, as opposed to a quick email? Should certain documents be professionally designed?
  • Which communication tools should be used to communicate for which purposes? Is an online demo via Zoom the norm, or should employees be pushing for in-person PowerPoint presentations? Is it OK to share ideas in Slack or is there a spreadsheet where they should be added?
  • When is communication needed, and in what timeframes? For example, do you expect a weekly email progress update about a certain project every Monday morning? Or perhaps you have an organisation-wide policy of not replying to emails after 6 pm or no meetings on Fridays.
  • How team members can have input, and that their input is valued. Clarify roles/responsibilities around communication, opportunities to provide feedback and ideas, and expectations around sharing information that could impact or harm the business. 

2. Invest Time And Resources.

Effective communication is not an afterthought. It’s a core part of your responsibilities as a manager or leader, which only happens when you set aside time in your calendar for:

  • 1:1s with your subordinates (to re-clarify responsibilities and targets).
  • Weekly team updates (to discuss and clear bottlenecks).
  • Extra check-ins with your remote team members (always over-communicate with them to compensate for the lack of face-to-face communication opportunities).
  • Identifying core causes of communication breakdowns and building fixes (e.g., is the turf war between two of your employees happening because of a hiring mistake or poorly designed job descriptions?)

(Related: How To Motivate Employees As A Manager).

3. Listen Actively.

A lot of young managers fall into the trap of believing that workplace communication means “better speaking ability”.

Listening is the other half of the communication equation.

Listening is not just hearing, but understanding the other person’s worldview and responding to what they’re saying.

Practice active listening by setting aside what you think the other person is saying and making an earnest attempt to view the issue from their perspective.

Important!

The most argumentative, stubborn people often seek to be understood, rather than to win an argument. Show them that you got their world, and they’re likely to back off.

For example, if a colleague is upset that they have to work overtime, you could respond in one of two ways:

  • John, I think you’re overreacting. We always work overtime; a few more hours won’t kill you.”
  • John, I know your family is important to you, and working overtime means you get to see your kids a lot less. That said, we have huge targets this year, and we can’t do it without you.”

(Related: Best Accounting Software In Australia).

4. Make Every Channel Earn Its Place.

When was the last time you audited the communication channels within your workplace?

You can reduce crossed wires by eliminating silos that inevitably occur as your organisation grows (or shrinks).

Take a closer look at:

  • Digital communication tools. Are there redundancies? Are some tools not widely adopted? Can you consolidate systems or train people to use them more fully?
  • Document management processes. Do you have specific file naming conventions and clarity on where information is stored, and how it’s shared? Do the right people have log-ins and suitable permissions, or do “gatekeepers” control access?

Expert Tip.

Look for opportunities to cull the barrage of useless communication in your organisation. I guarantee you that 70% of weekly CEO emails, bi-weekly intranet articles, daily stand-ups, engagement surveys, fortnightly staff morning teas, monthly reports, daily email notifications can be binned, and company performance wouldn’t suffer. Most of it serves only to distract, bore or overwhelm people.

5. Make Every Meeting Count (or cancel it).

Yes, some meetings are critical, and you need to have them face-to-face.

Important!

Never shy away from uncomfortable conversations (e.g., the need to help an underperforming employee get back on track) in the name of “efficiency”.

But I encourage you to look for opportunities to “step down” the bandwidth of your less important meetings. In other words:

  • Can the F2F meeting be replaced with a video call?
  • Can the video call be replaced by a recorded desktop video?
  • Can the desktop video be replaced by a screenshot?
  • Can a screenshot be replaced by an email?

If you decide that a meeting is necessary, be sure to:

  • Know the purpose of the meeting. Have a specific agenda for it. Then, only include relevant attendees: those responsible or accountable for achieving the meeting’s goal.
  • Be purposeful in how you run the meeting, even if it’s a casual check-in — commit to being attentive, distraction-free, honest and sincere. Encourage the same in others by creating standards of behaviour (i.e., no phones, no interrupting, no side conversations).
  • Require everyone to prepare in advance. Share any documents to be read, past meeting notes to review, or brainstorming prompts beforehand and give people sufficient time to consider these before meeting to seek input.
  • Follow up, by sharing the outcomes and next steps in writing after the meeting. Also, follow-up on progress towards next steps in any subsequent meetings.

6. Know Your Audience.

Ask employees to directly share their communication preferences and make the answers accessible to all team members (with permission, of course).

How do they like to receive information, and in what tone?

Important!

Some people are top-down thinkers, while others are bottom-up thinkers. The former need to understand the context before the detail, as this allows them to “put” the information into an “appropriate” area of their brain. The latter types prefer to receive the information first, and do the segmenting later.

  • How to communicate with a top-down thinker: “James, our sales are down. Here are some factors that may be causing this”.
  • How to communicate with a bottom-up thinker: “James, I noticed that we’re not making enough sales calls and our close rate has slipped. I suspect these factors are responsible for our recent decline in sales.

Consulting firm Sequoia encourages communication across its teams through the development of ‘user manuals’, written by each employee in response to prompts like ‘the best way to talk to me is’ and ‘how I prefer to deal with conflict is.’

Did You Know?

A global survey on communication styles at work in 2022-23 by Niagara Institute found that professionals struggle the most with saying what they mean in the moment (32.2%) and feeling confident enough to share their thoughts (27.7%). Most people agreed they’d only speak up at work if they’d had time to collect their thoughts first (63.9%).

7. Stick To Facts, Not Stories.

Do you have a person on your team who tends to ramble while the rest of you check out? You can help them communicate better by introducing the idea of “facts vs stories”:

  • Facts are events that happened – things everyone in the room would agree on.
  • Stories are a person’s interpretation of the facts.

For example, a customer complained about your team’s deliverables. That is a fact.

A customer complaining because they’re prejudiced against you, or they’re an angry person, or they’re a “bitch” are all stories. They’re not provable nor helpful.

Some stories are unavoidable. As humans, we use them to construct our worldviews.

But in the context of effective workplace communication, they can quickly become a distraction – and an indulgence for personalities who enjoy the limelight.

Expert Tip.

You can keep your meetings on track by helping other team members strip away the story from their communication.

7 Communication Types To Master In The Workplace.

The main types of communication that occur in a typical Australian workplace are:

Formal statements, speeches & eventsThese are best used to convey important company updates (e.g., funding rounds and promotions) or to create a sense of seriousness or ceremony.
Informal interactionsCasual conversations can build rapport and trust, so it’s vital to create opportunities for employees to communicate informally through team-building activities, team lunches, and social events.
Oral communicationClear verbal communication and an engaging speaking style are essential for tasks like presenting to customers, delivering training, pitching a business proposal, team meetings, or holding performance reviews.
Non-verbal communicationConstituting a large part of your executive presence, your body language, facial expressions and posture all contribute to communicating with impact.
Written communicationA preferred method for many because it enables precision and detail, written communications encompass emails, text messages, comments in collaboration software, PowerPoints, meeting notes, training materials, marketing content and social posts.
Visualisations and dataIncreasingly, communicating well means sharing insights via visuals that can include graphics, memes, illustrations, graphs, charts, tables, videos and animations.
ListeningActively listening, asking relevant and thoughtful follow-up questions and demonstrating your understanding of what’s been said are powerful communications tools. 

Final Words On Effective Workplace Communication.

If you’re in a leadership position, cultivate good communication skills by adopting a more curious and caring approach in your interactions with others.

Resist the urge to jump to conclusions and snap at people.

By shifting your mindset, you’ll find it easier to recognise, prevent and repair problems.

For instance, rather than reacting impatiently when a direct report rambles or provides too much detail in a project update, you might:

  • Recognise they’re uncertain about your faith in their ability, or feel nervous presenting orally.
  • Identify you haven’t been clear enough about what constitutes an ‘issue’ worth mentioning.

With empathy, you can communicate your views more clearly, foster a more positive work environment, and become more effective at offering constructive feedback.

Jody

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How To Motivate Employees As A Manager 4.6 (41) https://arielle.com.au/how-to-motivate-employees-as-a-manager/ https://arielle.com.au/how-to-motivate-employees-as-a-manager/#respond Wed, 22 Nov 2023 22:46:00 +0000 https://arielle.com.au/?p=83623 Reading Time: 8 minutesWhether you’re a new people leader, or have a few years under your belt, one is likely at the top]]> Reading Time: 8 minutes

Whether you’re a new people leader, or have a few years under your belt, one is likely at the top of your mind every day: Your potential for impact is immense. But how you motivate employees can make or break your team’s work environment and, in turn, your career.

Skeptical? Check out the research below.

Employees leave managers first and foremost — not so much roles or companies:

  • A recent Goodwire study revealed that 82% of workers across 10 industries would quit due to their manager’s behaviour.
  • A UK survey by Visier uncovered that more than half (53%) of those considering leaving their jobs say they were looking to change roles because of their manager.
  • According to Gallup, only 13% of employees worldwide are engaged at work.

More to the point, Gallup found that 70% of the variance in employee engagement depends on the manager.

So, how can you become one of those management “greats” who has mastered the art of employee motivation and engagement?

1. Set Clear Expectations.

Employment is a relationship. And like any relationship, clearly communicating what is expected from both parties is essential to fostering harmony, productivity, respect and mutual fulfilment.

Important!

Clear parameters and ongoing dialogue from the outset are key to avoiding disengagement and disillusionment later.

Sounds simple enough, right? However, many business and personal relationships go awry due to unclear expectations. We’ve all been there.

As a manager, you must prevent misunderstandings of expectations before they start.

A. Revisit Each Job Description.

Are you one of those managers who relies on HR to write your team’s job descriptions? If so, likely, they never see the light of day past the hiring stage.

The humble job description is a smart yet under-utilised way to set expectations and ensure employees feel inspired and on track.

From day one – and throughout their career journey.

Now, grab one of your team’s job descriptions. Evaluate it against these three criteria:

  • Longer is not always better. Often, job descriptions are written as though an entire team will be performing the work. The responsibilities section rambles on. Narrow it down to the key tasks for which the role will be accountable (ideally 500-600 words). Can one person realistically succeed in this role?
  • Determine how the role will support the company’s mission. To point number one, clearly state how the key tasks required will help the company grow. If a task doesn’t relate, take it out.
  • State the work hours and the amount of interface you expect. Think of this section of the job description as a communications plan. Be that specific. (Example: This position is expected to check email once a day on the weekends to monitor for potential client emergencies“).

(Related: 9 Best Password Managers In Australia).

B. Encourage Open Dialogue.

Sure, most managers use a job description during recruiting and hiring. That’s a no-brainer.

But using a job description beyond the hiring stage – as a useful tool to help your employees grow and progress – is one of the newest ideas in motivational management.

To know if you and your direct reports are on the right course, dust off the job description at least once a quarter and review it with each of your employees. Discuss the following during your meeting:

  • Are the responsibilities in the job description still valid, or have they changed? If they’ve changed, are they still relevant to the role, the organisation’s goals and company mission/values? Adjust if not.
  • If they’re still valid, develop a plan to evolve the role. (We’ll talk more about this later).
  • Are expectations being met for the role? If yes, this strongly indicates that role expectations are clear and expressed through achievable goals. If not, here is a golden opportunity to boost employee morale by helping them dissect which aspects of their role are successful, and which need attention.
  • Is your employee experiencing a sense of growth and fulfilment? The same rules of thumb stated above apply. Dig into the details and discuss ways to reinforce the positive and mitigate the negative.

(Related: How To Improve Workplace Productivity).

2. Overcommunicate Your Company’s Mission.

We’ve all seen those posters in the breakroom and on corporate websites. You know the ones – there’s likely a pyramid that spells out the company’s mission, vision and values.

Yes, this form of “employer brand marketing” has good intentions. Yet everyone stops noticing it within a week.

This is unfortunate since these words are meant to communicate your company’s big-picture North Star, and keep employees motivated.

Actions speak louder than words.

Important!

Rather than displaying slogans, you and the other leaders in your company must illustrate and bring to life your organisation’s mission and values at every opportunity.

Consider every instance you interact with your team as a group or individually.

These could be daily stand-up meetings, weekly team meetings, or regular 1:1’s you have with your direct reports. Look for opportunities to communicate.

It should feel like you’re overdoing it.

Expert Tip.

Give each team member a chance to mention how their work promotes that aspect of the mission, and what challenges they foresee. Keep it as short as possible – lightning-round style. Give everyone a voice. Offer positive feedback where appropriate.

3. Foster A Sense Of Belonging.

According to PwC’s 2022 Global Workplace Hopes and Fears, 75% of employees said they wanted to work for an organisation that positively contributes to society.

While more money is a huge motivator, it’s not enough.

Employees feel motivated by meaning, which they can only derive from their connection to the company’s mission.

The chart below outlines how over 50,000 employees worldwide want to feel at work – all of which can be impacted by how you both live and articulate your company’s mission, vision and values regularly.

This study proves that when your employees feel a personal tie to the company’s mission, they’re more likely to give of themselves in exchange for the reward of meaningful work.

Check out these 3 key steps below to help employees feel more connected and motivated:

1. Be Yourself.

Transparency and authenticity are easy when things are going well, but it’s especially important when hard news needs to be delivered.

  • Example: You need to share updates on poor business performance that are causing employee layoffs on teams across the organisation. Be as honest as possible, but remember to go beyond the corporate jargon. Let your team know that, even though you represent their employer, they’re dealing with a genuine human who cares about their well-being.

2. Be Inspirational.

An employee’s morale can be low for many reasons but let’s explore one that is project-related.

  • Example: Your employee has tried something creative on a project that didn’t succeed and they’re feeling down about their talents. Remind them of their good points and offer suggestions on improving. If a factor was out of their control, offer tips on navigating obstacles in the future.

3. Live Your Values.

Similar to communicating company values, actions speak louder than words when building positive employee relationships.

As such, your own values as a manager have the potential to motivate your employees in a more personal, lasting way.

  • Example: An employee comes to you with a conflict they’re having with a leader on another team, creating tension on both sides. A management value of yours is empathy, so you listen without jumping to your own conclusions and ask non-judgmental questions along the way. Keeping an open mind will help you and your employee seek more innovative solutions together, giving your employee an increased feeling of autonomy, motivation and confidence moving forward.

4. Offer Constructive Feedback.

Let’s face it. Offering feedback comes naturally when someone has knocked it out of the park.

But when a moment arises where an employee has acted in a way that contradicts your company’s mission and values, suddenly offering feedback is not so fun. Or natural.

However, it is possible to make any positive or negative feedback constructive.

A. Use The Mission And Values.

Easier said than done, you say? Check out the example below for inspiration.

Situation:

In a group brainstorming session, one of your employees shoots down a blue-sky idea offered by another team member for the reason that “this will never work here because of X, Y and Z.”

In this situation, your response might be a two-part approach.

Part 1

In the moment, in the session, you (in an upbeat, non-judgmental way) remind everyone that one of your company values is “Think Big.”

You then suggest that before the idea is dropped, the employee who offered the idea is able to lead the group through the feasibility and viability of the concept.

The group then spends 5-10 minutes brainstorming whether or not the “big idea” is worth working into the company roadmap.

Part 2

Check in with the employee who shot down the idea and the one who offered the idea. Ask them, in a non-defensive way, what their intention was and what happened from their point of view.

Remind them of the meaning behind the “Think Big” value and let them explain their intention.

Hearing their story will help you uncover the root cause of that employee’s behaviour.

Take this opportunity to reinforce the company’s values and reiterate that the whole team exists to support the company’s overall mission.

Expert Tip.

Use your mission and values to encourage a positive work culture.

5. Create A Personalised Career Roadmap.

Now that both you and your team are clear on and behaving according to your company’s mission, vision and values, it’s time to get personal.

As in, individual career goals.

Seek to understand each employee’s motivations and create a plan where their job helps them achieve it. Where possible, create a win/win.

(Related: 100 Personalised Thank You Message Ideas).

A.  Framing The Conversation.

Begin with their job description. Assess it together and ask for their ideas on which skills are being used to their fullest and which aren’t. This leads naturally to the next bullet.

Ask them to share their thoughts on what motivates them and how their future can support the company and their personal life and development.

Finally, discuss how goals can be personal and career-related and that either could be tied to money.  

Examples are powerful inspiration, so here’s one for you.

Situation:

An employee shares that they want to put a $100,000 deposit on their first family home within 2 years. They love what they do at your company and want to make this happen within the context of working there.

Follow these 5 steps to create a successful roadmap for your employee.

  • Let the employee know that you appreciate their contributions and will do your best to work with them to try and make this happen.
  • In partnership with your employee, discuss what KPIs they need to focus on to make this happen.
  • Discuss if this is realistic based on the timeline the employee has shared, and if you agree with the chosen KPIs.
  • Brainstorm alternatives in the event company goals change.
  • Update their job description, if needed, to reflect the roadmap.

Key Questions:

  • Is it feasible for this employee to be promoted in the next 6-12 months?
  • Is there a stretch assignment they can take on to boost their experience and performance?

Important!

Document everything into a cohesive roadmap and clearly outline how and when the two of you will communicate about progress.

B. Formal Development Options.

If your company has a formal employee development program, consider making it a part of this plan.

If your company doesn’t offer a formal program, get creative and think about other ways to help your employees grow and reach their goals.

(Related: How To Improve Employee Engagement In Your Business).

Whether you’re looking at conferences, courses, mentors or stretch assignments as mentioned above, the 60/20/20 approach is a good rule of thumb:

  • 60% of learning should be done on the job (i.e., experiential).
  • 20% of learning should be through formal training.
  • 20% of learning should be from on-the-job coaching.

Whatever plan you create together, never forget that your goal as a manager to motivate your employees to do their best work and to stay with your company in the long run.

Actively involve yourself in their future plans, always tying them back to what is best for the business and what the company stands for.

Expert Tip.

The ideal mentor for your employee doesn’t have to work at your company. Open up to external options.

Final Thoughts On How To Motivate Employees As A Manager.

Your journey as a manager will be filled with highs and lows, conflicts and resolutions, wins and losses.

While it may often feel like an emotional rollercoaster, it doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy the ride. Especially if you retain the theme, we’ve been driving home throughout this guide.

When motivating employees, communication is king in all its forms.

The impact of your company’s mission and values cannot be overstated. You can never communicate about them too much. Make a plan and stick to it.

Involve your team in the conversation; the rewards will far outweigh the effort.

Irene

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Why Is Leadership Important? 4.8 (56) https://arielle.com.au/why-is-leadership-important/ https://arielle.com.au/why-is-leadership-important/#respond Mon, 20 Nov 2023 06:23:11 +0000 https://arielle.com.au/?p=97375 Reading Time: 7 minutesThere’s a lot of rhetoric around good leaders, describing them in terms of inspirational visionaries making world-changing decisions that shape]]> Reading Time: 7 minutes

There’s a lot of rhetoric around good leaders, describing them in terms of inspirational visionaries making world-changing decisions that shape a better future.

But you only have to consider the terrible deeds committed throughout history under the command of infamous world leaders to realise that effective leadership is powerful but not always positive.

A person in a workplace leadership position can either:

  • Motivate team members to work hard, excel and obtain a sense of fulfilment, or
  • Negatively influence employees to become disengaged, adversarial, or even act unethically.

Leadership is important in life and work because, without leaders, we are unable to define clear visions and translate them into reality.

(Related: How To Improve Team Performance).

What Is Leadership And Why Does It Matter?

Leadership is influencing and maximising team members’ collective efforts to attain a common goal.

You’ve probably heard the phrase “like herding cats” or that other animal-inspired metaphor, “you can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make it drink”.

Expert Tip.

Uniting people around a shared vision – as opposed to one of many others available – is the daily challenge of great leadership.

Effective leaders achieve this not by being “nice” or “understanding” but by aligning team members’ individual motivations with the organisation’s wider high-level objectives.

As William H.C. Prentice points out in his classic essay “Understanding Leadership“, leaders must learn two basic lessons to be successful:

  • People are complex. Apart from carrots and sticks, people respond to patriotism, self-doubt, need for recognition and many other emotions.
  • People are different. One team member may crave growth through feedback and be frustrated by the leaders’ inability to provide it, while another team member may view any form of feedback as a threat to their self-esteem.
what is leadership definition

5 Characteristics Of Effective Leadership.

The latest trend among leadership gurus is to neatly divide leaders into “toxic” and “non-toxic” varieties, encouraging you to be the latter.

In their minds:

  • Effective leadership encourages employees to grow and achieve personal goals as a by-product of contributing to organisational objectives.
  • Toxic leadership relies on power imbalances, manipulation or force of personality to pressure and coerce others.

Of course, this is a gross, unhelpful oversimplification (see Prentice’s rule #1 above).

Most conflict between leaders and subordinates leaves at least one party blaming the other for “toxic” behaviour.

(Related: Why Is Emotional Intelligence At Work So Vital?)

For instance, a CEO (let’s call him John) lets his VP of Growth (we’ll call her Susan) know that sales figures need to improve. Susan reacts defensively.

  • Both parties feel disrespected and misunderstood, spending days sharing victim-villain stories that paint their own perspective in a favourable light to any colleague who will listen.
  • John scolds his “stubborn” and “immature” direct report, while Susan accuses John of “controlling” and “unsupportive” behaviour.

The ability to prevent and untangle situations like these is one of the hallmarks of a successful leader.

Expert Tip.

Instead of falling back on paradigms that cast someone as “toxic”, I suggest you study Patrick Lencioni’s classic Five Dysfunctions of A Team, which has helped thousands of leaders create high-performance teams.

Above: Lencioni examines why effective teams are rare and provides step-by-step instructions for eliminating dysfunction.

What Is The Role Of A Leader?

The job of leaders is fivefold:

  • Define a larger cause.
  • Articulate the problem better than anyone else.
  • Build a team capable of attacking the status quo.
  • Hold the team accountable.

When the company hits obstacles, leaders are responsible for driving change.

Changing economic environments, like Australia’s slip into a per-capita recession combined with a high-interest-rate environment prompt business leaders to focus on business fundamentals.

This is the bread and butter of department heads, executives and C-suite leaders.

However, throughout your career, you may take on informal leadership positions because you see an opportunity for improvement or feel responsible for meeting a particular outcome.

(Related: How To Write An Employee Reference Letter).

So, you rally colleagues behind your cause to ensure things get done.

Leaders do not always have:

  • A leadership title.
  • Official authority.
  • The admiration of others.
  • A charismatic or persuasive style.

People operating quietly in the background to nudge and enable others, without taking credit or being recognised, are also leaders.

(Related: How To Showcase Leadership Skills On Your Resume).

What Is Your Leadership Style?

In a recent conversation with academic and author Adam Grant about leadership skills we need to build, author Simon Sinek said:

what is great leadership

In exploring and growing your leadership capabilities, you’ll need to draw on different aptitudes and approaches depending on the situation.

Four common leadership styles include:

Transactional leadershipThe old ‘carrot or stick’ dichotomy relies on rewards and punishments as the primary tools for shaping behaviour. This approach fails to recognise the complex drivers of human behaviour, limiting a leader’s ability to inspire discretionary effort.
Democratic leadershipThis style involves gaining feedback from everyone to help guide decisions and influence through collaboration and consensus. It suits situations where you have fewer time pressures and can benefit from collective guidance.
Transformational leadershipDeep-seated change and innovation are the crux of this approach. Transformational leaders aim to build a more creative, stimulating and optimistic work environment where employees work towards a vision.
Servant leadershipLeaders use this style to create a caring and welcoming organisational culture. By empowering others and forgoing personal glory, servant leaders influence through being accessible, helpful and kind.
signs of leadership

What Are The Benefits Of Strong Leadership?

Analysis of previous research found that up to 40% of the variability in team morale, performance and critical organisational behaviours (positive and negative) can be attributed to the actions and attitudes of managers and leaders.

When leaders do their jobs well, companies experience:

1. Better Morale And Engagement.

People can become disillusioned due to being overwhelmed, poor clarity and trust, and a lack of growth opportunities or appreciation for their effort. 

Important!

By putting daily tasks in the context of a ‘big picture’ goal, leaders can create a working environment where everyone feels connected to the mission.

Human beings crave recognition, safety, autonomy, connection and fairness.

Employees look to leaders for the reassurance and empowerment they need to feel like:

  • They’re valued as human beings with emotions, not just productive vessels.
  • They have the opportunity and means to apply their talent, with help available when needed.
  • Hard work hard pays off and results in recognition and rewards.

2. Healthier Organisational Culture.

Leaders have a disproportional impact on organisational culture because they strongly influence what work gets done, and how it gets done.

They also define company values through their actions and words.

Important!

In a positive workplace culture, employees’ personal goals and values align with organisational goals and values. The employee is empowered to take calculated risks, make mistakes and learn from them.

In-depth research by consulting firm McKinsey found that just four behaviours accounted for 89% of leadership effectiveness, critical to organisational health and a positive culture.

These behaviours are:

Solving problems effectivelyGathering information and weighing it to effectively handle a team dispute, ensuring people feel heard and matters are dealt with fairly.
Operating with a strong results orientationHelping teams understand why different goals matter and prioritise high-value work (rather than simply efficiency for efficiency’s sake).
Seeking different perspectivesBy actively seeking your team member’s feedback as a core leadership habit, so they feel safe to speak up and contribute ideas.
Supporting othersBy taking an interest in the welfare of the people in your team, being trustworthy and helpful, trusting others, and intervening to prevent conflict.

(Related: How To Build A Positive Work Culture).

3. More Agile Workplace.

Embracing change, continuously looking for improved ways of working, and taking action even when the outcomes are unclear are core strengths of good leadership.

Expert Tip.

Purposeful leaders are willing to challenge tradition and outdated practices. They’re focused on driving change rather than preserving the status quo.

That takes courage, a growth mindset, and a clear understanding of the company’s vision — rather than a desire to ‘fit in’ or avoid dealing with the difficult repercussions of change.

Expert Tip.

A recurring leadership problem is “Happy Talk”, a basic failure to admit problems until too late. You can’t get out of a crisis until you admit you’re in one. “All I have to offer is blood, toil, tears and sweat” – Winston Churchill

(Related: Ultimate Guide To Delegation Of Authority).

What Are The Risks Of Bad Leadership?

Ineffective leadership can reverse many of the gains you’d expect from great leadership. This includes:

  • Reduced morale and disengagement.
  • Higher rates of burnout and employee turnover.
  • Lower productivity and performance.

Additionally, leadership that role models a “winner takes it all” attitude based on high-pressure targets can potentially lead to employees taking shortcuts or behaving recklessly or dishonestly in order to avoid failure.

What’s The Impact Of Poor Leadership Skills?

Leaders failing to provide psychosocial support at work is a key cause of burnout — according to the 2023 Australian Workplaces Survey.

The survey found almost two out of three Australian workers felt burned out at work, with people experiencing higher levels of burnout having lower levels of performance and being twice as likely to be considering switching jobs.

Top hazards for workers included:

  • Lack of role clarity.
  • Poor change management.
  • Inadequate reward and recognition.
  • Low job control.
  • Unachievable job demands.

How Does Leadership Differ From Management?

Well-known management consultant and author Peter Drucker said, “Management is doing things right; leadership is doing the right things.”

A manager is responsible for organising, delegating, monitoring and reporting on a team’s work.

A staggering 83% of organisations believe in the importance of effective leadership at every level of seniority.

This often involves keeping people accountable to the rules, policies and goals a company’s leadership sets down.

Meanwhile, a leader’s job is to see the vision for the future, and remind the team of their role in it.

LeaderManager
Authority based on values & visionAuthority based on position
Focused on vision and missionFocused on processes
Custodian of the big pictureCustodian of structure
Focus on financial performanceFocus on cash management
Develops the business’ 3-5 year strategyExecutes strategy by developing operational plans
“From the heart”“From the mind”

Expert Tip.

Managers can lose the respect of their subordinates if they lack leadership skills. In these situations, employees ignore managers’ directions and turn to unofficial ‘leaders’ among their peers, whose influence undermines the manager further and derails the company’s broader objectives.

Final Thoughts On Improving Your Leadership Skills.

Any meaningful pursuit in life will demand that you become an exceptional leader.

Whether you’re a junior employee, an entrepreneur or already in a leadership role, your success will depend on your ability to move people.

Leadership is rarely about telling people what to do, and when.

Instead, effective leaders must rely on their emotional intelligence, strong communication and decision-making skills, as well as critical thinking ability to cultivate the desire in each employee to bring their best self to work, and find meaning in the company’s mission.

Excellent leadership is rare, but it is a skill you can learn.

Jody

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Ultimate Guide To Delegation Of Authority 4.6 (56) https://arielle.com.au/delegation-of-authority/ https://arielle.com.au/delegation-of-authority/#respond Thu, 05 Oct 2023 06:32:00 +0000 https://arielle.com.au/?p=88954 Reading Time: 8 minutesManagers worry about their effectiveness, yet paradoxically tend to struggle with delegating authority as a means to becoming more productive.]]> Reading Time: 8 minutes

Managers worry about their effectiveness, yet paradoxically tend to struggle with delegating authority as a means to becoming more productive.

Success in a leadership role requires that you stop focusing solely on your value as an individual contributor and start sharing the load to strengthen your team’s performance.

Delegating authority gives you an opportunity to earn your team’s trust, shape employees into more well-rounded professionals, and gain recognition as the leader of a team that gets stuff done.

(Related: How To Write A Formal Warning Letter).

What Is Delegation?

Delegation happens when a manager’s tasks and authority are allocated to direct reports in order to maximise each person’s productivity and amplify your team’s overall impact.

delegate authority

When you delegate you place your trust in a direct report to achieve the outcome you want, while remaining answerable to your own superiors for ensuring the task goes smoothly.

A classic mistake rookie managers make: not delegating enough or micromanaging work entrusted to others.

However, even experienced leaders fall into the trap of taking on too much themselves or hoarding control.

You’re probably struggling to delegate responsibilities if you find yourself:

  • Overly stressed.
  • Not keeping up and missing deadlines.
  • Constantly fighting fires, like last-minute urgent requests.
  • Regularly interrupted by lower level employees seeking permission.
  • Getting dragged into issues beyond your remit.

Expert Tip.

Have you delegated authority only to be disappointed and conclude, wryly, that “when you want something done well, do it yourself”? The root cause could be your judgement around hiring. Do you know how to test for relevant competencies?

Why Is Delegating Work Important?

Delegated authority is a powerful source of leverage. It’s the secret to doing more with less.

Importantly, it provides your employees with growth opportunities and helps build a high-performance organisation. Delegation is a critical way for managers to:

  • Boost confidence of, and build trust with, your reports – by creating conditions where team members depend on each other.
  • Ensure timely completion of tasks by allocating work to people with available capacity.
  • Strengthen your leadership skills by coaching employees through mistakes (every mistake is a learning opportunity for you and your subordinate).
  • Increase your team’s effectiveness by ensuring you don’t become a bottleneck (focus on building the team, rather than working in the team.

Expert Tip.

Remember that people are most productive when they’re doing what they like. Delegate to people who like (and are good at) doing the task. This is a tip I learned from Sam Altman.

Is Delegated Authority Same As Delegated Accountability?

No. You’re ultimately accountable. Your boss will not accept the excuse,

“Yeah, I trusted my assistant John to do the report, and he missed the deadline”.

Maybe John messed up, but your boss won’t (and shouldn’t) care. Your failure to hold John accountable is your boss’ only concern.

(Related: How To Improve Workplace Productivity).

You need to own that failure, or your reputation will suffer.

Expert Tip.

Avoid getting stuck in lower-level management by banning the word “because” from your vocabulary. “I didn’t deliver because the marketing manager didn’t give me the right CRM permissions” isn’t a good response. Own the mistake, then use an emotionally smart conversation to discuss the issue with the marketing manager who let you down.

Do you know the difference between three core concepts: authority, responsibility and accountability?

What Is Authority?

Authority is both being in charge and wielding genuine power over a situation.

People in top-level management hold the most authority, and it cascades down.

When a manager delegates, they transfer some of their command, which helps the employee get taken seriously.

For it to work, be clear about what kind of control the employee has. What orders can they give, or which resources or budget can they access to accomplish the task assigned?

(Related: Is An MBA Worth It?)

What Is Responsibility?

Responsibility defines the duties and scope of the work your direct reports take on.

Accepting responsibility requires your employee to commit to achieving specific outcomes within certain parameters.

Taking responsibility is about employees recognising their obligation and not making excuses if they fall short.

Expert Tip.

You’ll only breed discontent and discord if you make people responsible without also offering adequate authority to realistically achieve a task. Frontline workers and mid-level managers have the onus of more responsibility (because they’re completing more tasks) and need to be supported accordingly.

What Is Accountability? 

Even when managers delegate, they retain the highest level of authority and responsibility within their team.

They’re ultimately accountable.

Managers must justify and face the consequences of the decisions and results that arise from their direct reports’ efforts (remember the VW emissions scandal?).

How To Delegate Authority Effectively In 5 Steps.

Effective delegation will eventually lighten your burden, so take the time to incorporate these steps into your management approach.

1.  Know What To Let Go Of.

Tasks that fall squarely in your purview as a manager shouldn’t be fully offloaded onto subordinates. 

Some activities will only have the desired impact, or be viewed as legitimate, because they’re based on your insights as a manager. For instance:

  • Performance management reviews.
  • Executive reporting to the C-Suite.
  • Setting high levels goals and budgets.
  • Recruiting and onboarding a new team member.
  • Resolving disputes or conflicts between teammates.

That doesn’t mean you need to do it all. You could delegate writing the draft of a report to a team member, so you can merely refine the content.

(Related: 9 Best Password Managers In Australia).

Similarly, you might have an employee shortlist applications for an open role, but then take responsibility for choosing who to interview.

Expert Tip.

Learning to let go can be difficult if you’re concerned others won’t do a good enough job. To help address this fear: take time to understand your direct reports’ strengths and skills; remind yourself that part of your role is coaching others to do better and learn from their mistakes. Start small by delegating easy, low-risk tasks at first.

2. Thoughtfully Assign Tasks To Others.

Delegating is a subset of workload management. Distributing required tasks fairly, and ensuring that people have the capacity and resources they need to realistically complete the task, is a key management skill.

Before delegating tasks, ask yourself:

“What other work will need to be reprioritised or re-assigned if I delegate this task to this person?”

This is particularly vital if you’re planning to delegate a recurring job with a view to expanding an employees’ responsibilities long-term.

Also keep in mind:

  • Realistic workloads vary by person, depending on their competencies and energy levels. For instance, it’s unfair to expect a junior member of the team to produce outputs at the same speed or level of quality as a more experienced employee.
  • ‘Stretch’ tasks are an important development tool. It’s tempting to always delegate to the person you consider the most competent or skilled, but you’ll miss the chance to help others boost their confidence and capabilities.
  • In-demand employees may face burnout. They say you should ask a busy person if you want something done. But often, some of the most ‘effective’ employees are those headed towards exhaustion because managers did not protect them.

Important!

Be careful you’re not setting people up to fail, and shaking their confidence, by delegating responsibilities that are ‘too much, too soon’. Don’t assign tasks without taking employees’ existing strengths and interests into account.

3. Set Clear Expectations.

Most delegation failures can be traced back to this step. Imprecise communication about the desired outcome risks an employee rushing into unnecessary work that needs to be redone.

Ensure you have:

  • Explained the context, like how it drives organisational goals, any preliminary work done, or background material about the topic or client.
  • Defined a clear scope of work, including deliverables and the format required.
  • Provided explicit instructions or guidelines where needed (e.g., a process to adhere to).
  • Highlighted any limitations or boundaries (e.g., keep the budget under $1,000).
  • Provided clear success metrics that you will evaluate the work against.
  • Set an achievable deadline, and clarity around timing of milestones if needed.
  • Clarify communication channels that will be used to ask questions or provide progress updates, and how often?

4. Monitor Progress.

Establishing a cadence for check-ins about the progress of a delegated task is part of setting expectations — this step is where you follow through.

That might require putting reminders in your calendar and setting aside time to review an employee’s work.

Project management or collaboration software is a useful way for employees to share regular feedback, enabling managers to review progress asynchronously so you don’t hold up the employees’ workflow.

The key here is:

  • Being engaged and available to support your employees if they face an obstacle, need advice, or require course correction;
  • Without micromanaging by dictating what should happen step-by-step or constantly hovering over employees’ shoulders.

5. Provide Feedback & Give Credit.

Give your employees feedback once the task is done, but remember to deliver criticism constructively and add balance through positive comments.

Refer back to the expectations you set and:

  • Explain how the employee deviated from expectations to help them learn and improve.
  • Discuss how well the end result measures up against the success metrics you defined. 
  • Ask for feedback about your delegation style. Were the expectations clear enough? Would more regular check-ins have helped?

Recognising your employees’ success is a critical aspect of building morale and engagement, so don’t hold back on the praise where it’s deserved.

Consider public displays of recognition, such as a mention at a team meeting or a thank-you lunch.

(Related: Most Effective Recognition Programs For Employees).

Mark Zuckerberg: A Chief Executive Officer Who Delegates Well?

We don’t see many great examples of leaders taking accountability publicly — but Mark Zuckerberg’s response to a 2016 scandal is a prime case study. At the time, Facebook was under heavy scrutiny for not protecting the data privacy of users.

Zuckerberg faced the media and declared he was accountable.

“I started this place, I run it,” he said.

“I’m responsible for what happened here.”

Despite Facebook being a huge multi-million dollar corporation with thousands of individuals responsible for a multitude of tasks, including many layers of managers who made decisions about what to delegate, Zuckerberg stood up and owned the problem as “my mistake”.

How does this reveal successful delegation?

Delegation works best when employees believe that leaders have their backs.

It means your direct reports can tackle tasks with greater enthusiasm and without excessive fear of failure, knowing they’ve got the freedom and authority they need.

It means your organisation can move quickly and achieve more. Yes, mistakes can happen — but it’s also fundamental for innovation and growth.

(Related: Is Emotional Intelligence Still Important In The Workplace?)

Frequently Asked Questions About Delegating Authority.

Delegated authorities look easier than they are..

Why Do Some Managers Avoid Delegating?

Delegating requires a mindset shift, especially for new managers who’ve likely risen in the ranks due to being a strong individual performer.

Rather than prove themselves through their own outputs, managers need to leverage and expand the capabilities of their team.

Managers tend to avoid delegating because they:

  • Are in the habit of doing everything themselves.
  • Feel guilty or wary of overloading others.
  • Believe it will take too long to explain what’s needed.
  • Don’t know who is better suited for the task.

A more selfish side of refusing to delegate authority is not wanting to relinquish power or interesting work to others.

Similarly, perfectionists may not believe others will give the task the proper attention and effort — but this hamstrings the growth of your employees.

Which Work Should You Delegate?

It makes more sense to delegate when:

  • The work matches the existing priorities of a team member.
  • Someone else has richer insights or knowledge related to the task.
  • Your report has stronger technical skill or proficiency with a required software.
  • When you spend more time on administrative tasks than on making it rain $.

When delegating with the intent of developing your team, ask yourself:

  • Will this task push the individual out of their comfort zone without stressing them?
  • Do you have time to monitor their progress, provide assistance and review their outputs?
  • Do we have time to redo or fix the work if it isn’t delivered as planned?
  • Will coaching an employee through a recurring task allow you to take it off your plate long-term?

Final Thoughts On How To Delegate Authority.

As you climb higher in your career, delegating becomes a superpower for proving yourself as a manager. By judiciously dividing your own work among your team, you can get more done at the same time as building your team’s potential.

But remember, managers can never be completely hands-off.

No matter how much work you delegate authority as a manager, you must take ownership of your team’s overarching success or failure.

Jody

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Why Is Emotional Intelligence Important In The Workplace? 4.8 (51) https://arielle.com.au/emotional-intelligence-in-the-workplace/ https://arielle.com.au/emotional-intelligence-in-the-workplace/#comments Mon, 24 Jul 2023 09:05:00 +0000 https://arielle.com.au/?p=84296 Reading Time: 7 minutesIncreased emotional intelligence in the workplace gives your business an edge. Job satisfaction and team performance are downstream from emotional]]> Reading Time: 7 minutes

Increased emotional intelligence in the workplace gives your business an edge. Job satisfaction and team performance are downstream from emotional intelligence skills, which are, in turn, downstream from self-awareness and self-regulation. Today we’ll talk about all three.

Your workplace is made up of human beings with complex feelings who depend on each other and resolve conflict daily. A team with strong emotional intelligence:

  • Helps each team member feel valued.
  • Promotes greater psychological safety.
  • Instils a sense of belonging.

Emotional intelligence and self-awareness don’t come naturally to everyone. But new research shows that it can be taught and learned.  

In this guide, I’ll explore what happens when there’s a lack of workplace emotional intelligence and provide strategies for building a positive work environment.

(Related: 100 Sincere Thank You Message Ideas).

What Is Emotional Intelligence?

Emotional intelligence (EI), sometimes referred to as emotional quotient (EQ), refers to how well a person can perceive, express and influence the emotions of others and themselves.

People with high emotional intelligence are self-aware and adaptable. They are more likely to:

  • See how others’ behaviours and feelings are linked.
  • Show consideration and care.
  • Skillfully control their own responses in stressful moments.
  • Empathise and build deep relationships.
  • Focus on driving outcomes than proving a point.

Did You Know?

The concept of emotional intelligence was first developed in 1990 by Peter Salovey and John D Mayer. It’s since become a common tool for evaluating people’s potential as managers and leaders.

5 Pillars Of Emotional Intelligence In The Workplace.

Psychologist Daniel Goleman is a leading proponent of emotional intelligence, its importance in career development and in building better workplaces.

Goleman has been working to define emotional intelligence since 1995, while business leaders have been using his 5-pillar framework to improve the job performance of employees and curb office politics.

workplace emotional intelligence

His EI elements cover: 

  • Self-awareness: Your ability to understand your own emotions and triggers.
  • Self-regulation: Your ability to deal effectively with emotions and hold yourself accountable.
  • Motivation: Whether you’re driven by a ‘why’ leading to sustained motivation.
  • Empathy: Your ability to read and interpret other people’s emotions.
  • Social skills: How well you communicate, build positive relationships and handle conflict.

How Is Emotional Intelligence Measured?

Studies confirm that emotional intelligence and empathy are closely linked. 

It’s not a simple metric to quantify, but credible ability-based tests have been developed, such as:

While an analysis of research in 2020 found there may be a correlation between being gifted and being emotionally intelligent — a high IQ does not automatically mean a person will have a high EQ.

I’m sure you’ve met people who are clever but also tactless or and emotionally reactive.

(Related: Psychometric Testing For Managers & Executives).

How Does Emotional Intelligence Impact Workplaces?

Emotional intelligence predicts career success, with data confirming that employees who can understand and regulate their own emotions are also more engaged, motivated, and experience greater levels of job satisfaction.

They are more likely to approach workplace conflict with compassion, solve problems using constructive criticism and value a positive work culture.

Examples of how emotional intelligence drives success:

How to Raise Emotional Intelligence Levels At Work. 

Employees who are emotionally tuned to their team and organisation’s needs create a win-win environment.

1. Manage People How They Want To Be Managed.

It’s easy to become wrapped up in workplace stress and start relating to others in unproductive ways.

People vary in their communication style and approach to conflict. Falling back on your defaults without considering how they make colleagues feel can reduce job satisfaction and stifle productivity.

For example: 

Dominant PersonalitiesSupportive Personalities
Tend to be direct and results-oriented, but can be too hasty and fail to provide enough detail.Are more indirect and interested in working with a team but can be too politically correct and avoid difficult conversations.

Use your self-awareness to frame your messaging in a way that will make it more likely to be received and drive the outcomes you intend.

Important!

Low emotional intelligence makes working with different personality types considerably more difficult. This applies whether you are a manager or not.

2. Demonstrate & Reward EI.

Managers with high emotional intelligence also prompt their subordinates to be emotionally intelligent.

Much behaviour theory is based on the idea that you model the behaviour you expect to see from those around you.

After all, ‘actions speak louder than words.’  We recommend that you: 

  • Work on your own EI skills first by examining your own emotions and taking time to practise techniques to lead with self-regulation and empathy.
  • Identify each team member’s EI competencies so you can lean into their strengths, work on their weaknesses, and deliver more tailored coaching. This can be achieved through skills-based tests and observation.
  • Design and deliver reward and recognition programs that encourage improved social skills, active listening and emotional awareness.
  • Encourage feedback and implement mechanisms to show feedback has been heard and acted on. For instance, if you use one-on-one check-ins to give employees an avenue to voice honest concerns and emotions, be prepared to acknowledge these feelings and help people address the underlying issues. 

3. Offer EI-Focused Development Opportunities.

People can learn to be more self-aware given the chance. Dedicated time away from day-to-day tasks to address weaknesses appropriately can pay off long-term through a more cooperative and self-assured employee. 

Offer targeted training and development opportunities with EI in mind. This could include specific EI training or courses on: 

  • Being a better listener.
  • Improving interpersonal communication skills.
  • Resolving conflict effectively.
  • Improving executive presence.
  • Managing emotional stress.

 Ensure you follow up with employees during performance conversations about how they’re applying these skills.

4. Hire For High Levels Of Self Awareness & EI.

When adding headcount, ensure that your hiring process takes candidates’ emotional intelligence into account.

Regardless of skill and experience, it’s destructive to bring in people that will disrupt your team’s balance through poor self-regulation and social skills.

Follow these dos and don’ts of recruiting for emotional intelligence:

DosDon’ts
Use skills-based measures of emotional intelligence as a screening tool.Rely on personality tests and self-reported skills to measure social awareness and emotional intelligence (they are prone to bias).
Assess emotional intelligence during the interview stage by using behavioural interviewing techniques that highlight a person’s self-awareness and ability to handle emotional situations.Follow an unstructured interview process that only focuses on technical competencies, or only asks hypothetical questions about what the candidate ‘might do’.
Speak to a person’s referees and ask questions about their emotional intelligence strengths and weaknesses. Probe deeper for examples.Avoid contacting references or failing to ask for examples of how the candidate treats people.

Interview questions that probe for high emotional intelligence:

  • Tell me about a time you thought your boss had made the wrong decision, which would have serious consequences for a client. How did you deal with it, and what happened?”
  • Think of an occasion where your work was criticised for not meeting the required standard. How did you react, and what was the result?”
  • What have you done in the past when you’ve faced an obstacle you can’t overcome on your own? What did you learn from the experience?”
  • Describe how you’ve built rapport with a colleague or client to achieve a good outcome?”

Raise Your Emotional Intelligence To Be A Better Leader.

Emotional intelligence matters more in leadership roles because you need to self-regulate and capably manage the emotions of your team to drive strong performance. 

There are steps you can take right now. Here are three ways you can easily begin cultivating higher emotional intelligence.

1. Ask For Feedback And Listen.

Paying attention to your own emotions is one facet of self-awareness, but we don’t always see ourselves accurately. Get some perspective by:

  • Asking trusted peers or mentors to provide honest feedback on where your negative emotions sometimes get the better of you.
  • Asking your subordinates about how you could improve the way you set goals, respond to issues and recognise accomplishments.

2. Stay Calm, Open And Accountable.

Regulating negative and positive emotions is part of becoming more emotionally intelligent in the workplace. 

That doesn’t mean pushing down emotions — it means dealing with them effectively, so you don’t affect others, lose focus or make poor knee-jerk decisions.

 It’s also a critical component of being mature enough to hold yourself accountable and act ethically.

Take the time to examine your initial response and put yourself in another person’s shoes. This will help you respond in line with your values, and in an emotionally intelligent way – even when the stress is high.

Important!

Some psychologists argue the inability to self-regulate, which often results in numbing or aggressive behaviours, is one of the greatest dangers of our current world.

Instead of avoiding conflict, “flying off the handle”, or laying blame in moments of threat, you can: 

  • Take 1-3 deep breaths and feel your feet on the floor.
  • Acknowledge how you are feeling with 2-3 words and allow that feeling to exist.
  • Hold compassion for yourself and seek to understand where that feeling is coming from.
  • Ask yourself, what can your feelings teach you? 
  • Genuinely feel for other people’s circumstances and be curious about their behaviour.
  • Embrace a positive attitude, consider what you can do to improve the situation?
  • Take ownership and favour action in your approach to difficult decisions or conversations. 

3. Exercise Your Social Skills.

Emotionally intelligent individuals tend to be people people. They like being in the company of others, and have prioritised sharpening their social skills.

Superior social skills make you stand out.

Everyone likes being around individuals who are respectful and gracious, confident and magnetic, warm and authentic.

The best way to strengthen these attributes is to put your social skills to work:

  • Seek out conversations and aim to make meaningful connections. Aim to uncover people’s intrinsic motivations. What makes them tick?
  • Strive to communicate for its own sake, and pay close attention to how it’s received.
  • Share feedback openly and generously (e.g., voicing genuine praise for others).
  • Don’t shy away from uncomfortable or contentious exchanges, speak up respectfully.

When you become more self-aware and sensitive to others’ feelings, you’ll see that each person has an intrinsic motivation that shapes their behaviour.

This can be fascinating to observe, and helps you develop deep and healthy relationships in and outside the workplace.

Expert Tip.

Practise active listening (which involves showing attention, asking questions, and providing feedback) in and outside of the workplace to strengthen your relationships.

How Emotionally Intelligent Bosses Respond To Stress.

Here’s a simple template for using self-management and exemplary social skills to initiate a difficult conversation:

  • Define the specific situation that is creating conflict.
  • Explain how the other person’s behaviour makes you feel and why.
  • Propose a solution or resolution and confirm they’re onboard.

Example 1: An employee is regularly unprepared for meetings:

  • When you don’t show up ready to contribute to our meeting…”
  • I feel frustrated because we can’t progress the project…”
  • Can I ask you to reschedule meetings if you don’t have updates to share? Does that work for you?”

Example 2: An employee goes over your head to complain:

  • When you emailed the CEO about the problem you’re having…”
  • I felt disrespected and disappointed, because it’s my responsibility to handle that and I’m always open to hearing from you…”
  • Can we agree you’ll reach out to me first in future? Is that OK?”

Boost Satisfaction In The Workplace With Emotional Intelligence.

Cultivating strong emotional intelligence skills is critical for workplace success.

Emotionally intelligent people can bring their whole selves to work, safely express themselves, take and receive constructive criticism, regulate their own emotions and derive a strong sense of job satisfaction at the end of each workday. 

Workplaces are for humans — and humans are emotional and social creatures.

Enhance emotional intelligence by practising daily in small ways. Start by becoming more curious about why people behave in specific ways, getting to know your emotional triggers and practising patience.

After a period of undoing and relearning (which can be uncomfortable), you’ll experience more worthwhile interactions in your personal life, create a stronger team, and build a successful organisation with emotional intelligence at its core.

Jody

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How To Master Your Executive Presence In 7 Steps 4.9 (308) https://arielle.com.au/executive-presence/ https://arielle.com.au/executive-presence/#respond Tue, 18 Jul 2023 05:26:00 +0000 https://arielle.com.au/?p=88317 Reading Time: 6 minutesExecutive presence has the feel of corporate jargon, but it’s actually a salient factor in both career and organisational success]]> Reading Time: 6 minutes

Executive presence has the feel of corporate jargon, but it’s actually a salient factor in both career and organisational success — because poor leadership has devastating impacts on performance, well-being and retention.

Great executive presence is critical to a leader’s ability to rally their team to greatness. The concept seems nebulous because it’s difficult to define, but easy to spot. When we’re in the presence of someone compelling, we know it.

Think of a successful leader you want to emulate. They tend to possess a certain poise, warmth and authenticity that seems to be innate.

The good news is you don’t have to be born with charisma and confidence — executive presence is a skill you can build and master.

(Related: Ultimate Guide To Delegating Authority).

What Is Executive Presence?

An elusive leadership quality, executive presence is the ability to deepen your impact with your bearing. It requires:

  • Demonstrating competence.
  • Displaying self-assurance, dignity and charm.
  • Inspiring admiration and trust.

It’s the extent to which senior leaders can move others to act with your character, presence and style.

The term was likely popularised by author Sylvia Ann Hewlett — an expert in effective communication — whose book Executive Presence was published in 2014.

Based on research, her work posits that executive presence is “a dynamic, cohesive mix of appearance, communication, and gravitas.”

Benefits Of Strong Executive Presence.

Executive presence is essential for people aspiring to leadership roles. It’s a quality that helps you inspire confidence, leading to better results, recognition of your value, and exposure to better opportunities.

In other words, you’ll become ‘one to watch’.

A survey of HR professionals found 77% agreed that people with good executive presence progress quickly in their careers.

Organisations benefit when leaders are capable of inspiring confidence, because they model ideal behaviours for success and strong ethics.

(Related: How To Improve Team Performance).

Plus, senior executives with strong executive presence tend to flex their emotional intelligence skills —which supports improved teamwork, creativity, and constructive problem-solving.

Important!

High-performing organisations are more likely to expect their leaders to develop executive presence as a competency and use it as a critical success metric.

How To Improve Your Executive Presence.

A more sophisticated take on the ‘why’ and ‘how’ of your daily leadership approaches can help you achieve higher levels of executive presence.

Consider the traits you need to develop and let go of then, follow the 7 tips below to start making progress.

To Develop:To Let Go Of:
Confidence in your presenceDoubt in your credibility
Custom-fit communicationOne-size-fits-all communication
Reliance on teamReliance on self
Defining objectivesDefining tasks
Accountability for goalsResponsibility for tactics
Outside-in view of your organisationInside-out view of your function

1. Improve Your Verbal Communication Skills.

Strong communication skills are central to any leader’s effectiveness. You need to go one step further to build your executive presence — by using language to become more magnetic and persuasive. 

Being concise and forthright lends more credence to your words.

Try this three-step exercise to sharpen your message:

Record yourself talking to camera for 15 minutes. Then play it back – and be ready to cringe.

Take note of your use of:

  • Filler words like ‘ums and ahs’, ‘like’ and ‘you know’.
  • Excessive self-deprecation (you likely do it due to a lack of confidence).
  • Excessive backstory or level of detail, i.e., rambling.
  • Hedging that drains impact, such as ‘I feel like’, ‘maybe’, and ‘sometimes’.

Start noticing when your communication is vague or verbose. Reset and choose a more authoritative approach. 

(Related: Four Pillars of Transformational Leadership).

2. Work On Your Self-Awareness.

As a senior leader, you’ll be watched, judged and — hopefully — followed. Being conscious of your own behaviours and blind spots, and being curious about how you’re being perceived, are both important.

Of course, you don’t want to obsess about your every move. The goal is to:

  • Avoid overconfidence and rash reactions.
  • Reflect on the views of others and how you affect their emotions.
  • Acknowledge your foibles – mistakes, uncertainty or areas for improvement. Don’t be afraid to apologise, and never shun away from taking responsibility.

Bravado and arrogance don’t inspire admiration. A self-aware person exudes self-assurance and empathy.

Important!

Everyone has room for growth, and recognising this publicly is wise. Studies have shown that demonstrating humility makes you more likeable, and makes you a better role model for your follower’s own growth journeys.

3. Learn To Thrive Under Pressure.

It’s impossible to convey a dignified air when you act flustered or erratically. Think of former US President Barack Obama’s ability to lead through a crisis and remain calm.

great executive presence
He ran a global superpower — did he ever seem like he was in a rush?

Notice when your composure is eroded by stress. Do more of the things that help you achieve equilibrium. Think before you act.

Executive presence in high-stakes situations is characterised by:

  • Decisiveness but with a willingness to take advice from others.
  • Courage to take calculated risks, without being foolhardy.
  • Openness about unpopular decisions and why they’re needed.
  • Accountability for the outcomes of your decisions, both positive and negative.

4. Drive Meaningful Interactions.

Instead of impassioned speeches standing at a podium, you’re more likely to lead smaller meetings or one-on-one conversations.

Leaders with gravitas can connect with people with competing ideas and agendas because they leverage their emotional intelligence to connect with stakeholders at a deeper level.

Build your executive presence skills by approaching every interaction as an opportunity to:

  • Learn or contribute insights.
  • Build a strong and diverse network.

In more formal meetings, convey a strong executive presence by:

  • Being prepared and having evidence/data to support your points.
  • Directing talks towards relevant and meaningful topics.
  • Respectfully commanding attention when conversations get off-track.
  • Moving everyone towards a constructive outcome or action.

5. Define And Embody Your Values.

Inner confidence and the ability to act with conviction come from knowing who you are and what you stand for. Also important – knowing what’s outside your scope of concern, so you waste less energy on things that don’t matter to you.

Many leaders define themselves through the lens of their job or family role, e.g., “I’m a CEO” or “I’m a father”. These are surface-level ways of helping you navigate the world.

Great leaders go deeper by defining core values they’ll prioritise, no matter what.

Make a list of 5-10 values that you’ll embody daily and measure your self-esteem against.

Examples of personal values and how to define them for yourself could include:

  • My word is my bond: If I’ve made a commitment, I’ll deliver – regardless of how I feel.
  • Responsibility: I’m 100% responsible for everything within my control and how I handle matters outside my control.
  • Compassion: I avoid causing distress, show that I care, and leave people feeling good about themselves.
  • Freedom of speech: I express my opinion, and allow others to do the same – even if we disagree. Especially if we disagree.

Expert Tip.

Clarity on your values helps you act in ways that are consistent with what matters most to you, regardless of the situation. Revisit your list of values regularly, to both reinforce your beliefs and reprioritise where necessary.

6. Watch Your Body Language & Physical Impact.

Your energy levels, appearance and body language all send signals about your attitude and self-belief. Executive presence can be boosted by:

  • Appropriate appearance: Dressing smartly or in line with company culture, and ensuring you maintain good hygiene and grooming.
  • Confident posture: Without attempting to intimidate others, hold your head high, remain relaxed and act like you belong.
  • Strong eye contact: Use your eyes to engage with others. (It’s a common problem for new leaders. If you struggle to maintain eye contact, consider formal executive presence training).
  • Powerful gestures: Use hand gestures to amplify your verbal communication. (Consider taking a public speaking course to integrate the two).
  • No Monotone: Vary the volume of your voice to make your message easier to hear.

7. Listen To Understand.

Leaders are less likely to receive honest feedback, create space for divergent ideas, or gain the respect of their followers if they won’t listen or authentically engage in dialogue.

To become a better listener:

  • Pay attention and leave space for others to speak.
  • Ask open-ended questions and demonstrate your understanding through your responses, rather than making a separate point.
  • Don’t close down when ideas conflict with your own. Express disagreement respectfully, focus on facts and avoid personal attacks.

Develop Your Leadership Presence To Grow Your Career.

Executive presence is not an act. It’s a set of skills that likely are a missing link between your current role and a more senior leadership position.

Developing stronger communication skills and better body language will require pushing past your comfort zone.

You can step into being a more assured and charismatic persona by building on your existing strengths gradually, and by taking time to work on your habits.

With practice and continual refinement, you can become a more credible, appealing and admired leader who motivates others to succeed through leadership skills and executive presence.

Jody

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